Mhlawumbe uzomangala, kodwa ngokwezibalo zeminyaka yamuva nje, cishe ingxenye yesilinganiso semishado ebhalisiwe iyahlukana. Mhlawumbe iphesenti yokuhlukanisa ezweni lethu likhulu kakhulu ngenxa yobulula bokubhaliswa kwabo, ngoba ngaphambili, lapho lo mbhangqwana ungahlukanisa kuphela imvume yemvume yesonto, ukuhlukanisa kwakungaphansi kakhulu. Kodwa, ngandlela-thile, umndeni uyeka ukuba umndeni emva kwesinqumo sokuqeda umshado, futhi iningi labo liyabathinta izingane. Amalungu amancane kakhulu emndenini ahlale enzima ukubhekana nokuhlukaniswa kukapapa nomama, ikakhulu uma abazali bengaboni ngaso linye ngezingane ngesikhathi sehlukaniso. Ngezansi ulwazi olufanele lwaziwe kulabo abazohlukanisa: indlela yokuhlela isahlukaniso phambi kwezingane , yimaphi amadokhumenti okufanele ahanjiswe, obani ngemva kokuhlukanisa kuzohlala ingane, njll.
Inqubo yesehlukaniso phambi kwezingane
Uma umndeni onomntwana ongaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 ufaka isicelo sokuqhafaza, khona-ke kwenzeka kuphela enkantolo. Azikho ezinye izinketho, ngoba iseshini yenkantolo ibanjwe ukuze kuvikelwe amalungelo omntwana futhi kuqinisekiswe ukuthi uma ehlukanisile akahlukunyezwa nganoma iyiphi indlela (yokuhlala, impahla, ukukhulumisana nomunye wabazali). Enye indlela - uma ingane ingakapheli unyaka, bese-ke isehlukaniso uvele wenqabe: isehlukaniso nezingane ezincane ngomthetho akavunyelwe.
Ngakho-ke, uma isinqumo senziwe, abazali ababili noma bobabili kumele baqoqe iphakheji eligcwele lamadokhumenti futhi badlulisele ehhovisi lezobulungiswa endaweni yokuhlala lapho isimangalo sizobhalwa khona futhi iseshini yenkantolo yokuqala izoqokwa. Lephakheji yamadokhumenti ihlanganisa izibambiso ezilandelayo:
- isitatimende sesimangalo ngokwawo;
- amakhophi ama-passports omshado;
- isitifiketi somshado;
- isitifikedi sokuzalwa somntwana;
- uma abashadile benenkinga mayelana nokuhlukaniswa kwezindlu zangempela, khona-ke udinga amadokhumenti omthetho.
Emhlanganweni wokuqala, isinqumo, njengomthetho, asizange sithathwe. Abashadile banikwa enye inyanga uma beqhubeka bashintsha ingqondo yabo bese bekhipha isimangalo. Ngemva kwenyanga, ngesikhathi esimisiwe, kufanele bavele ngamaphasipoti okuqala omhlangano wesibili. Ijaji ivame ukubuza imibuzo ngokuthi kungani indoda nomkayo benqume ukuhlukanisa, ngenxa yezizathu zokuphila kwabo komndeni abangazange bahlakulele. Futhi ulungiselele imibuzo mayelana nezingane: unesivumelwano esivumelwaneni kulabo abazohlala nabo ngemva kwesahlukaniso, bangaki futhi bayobona kuphi umzali wabo wesibili, njll. I-alimony izonqunywa: ijwayele ukukhokhwa nguyise wengane, uma ehlala ukuze ahlale nonina, kodwa maduzane emcimbini wokwahlulela, kwakukhona okulandelana lapho kutholakala khona umlinganiso kumama.
Ekupheleni komhlangano, inkantolo ikhipha isinqumo sokugcina ngesahlukaniso. Ukwenza kube ngempumelelo, kufanele uvakashele ihhovisi lokubhalisa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezilandelayo lapho uhlala khona, lapho uzokhipha isitifiketi sokuhlukanisa.
Yonke inqubo yesehlukaniso, uma abashadile benomntwana, kuthatha cishe izinyanga ezimbili.
Izingxabano mayelana nezingane ngokuhlukanisa
Njengomkhuba wokubonisa, izingane ezihlukanisiwe ngabazali ngokwazo, zikhetha phakathi kwabo, ukuthi bazohlala nobani. Ezimweni eziningi kakhulu, izingane zihlala nomama wazo: indima yakhe yemvelo njengowesifazane kanye nomhlengikazi wakhe ongenamanzi uyathinteka, ngisho noma izingane sezivele zidala. Umvelo ongokwemvelo wokunakekela inzalo yabo awuvumeli umama ukuba ashiye izingane zakhe kubayise, ngisho noma kufanelekile. Obaba bavame ukubekezelela lesi simo. Uma abashade ngokwabo besakaza, abantwana bazohlala nabo esikhathini esizayo,
Uma abazali bengenakufika esinqumweni esinjalo, inkantolo izoyikhipha ngesisekelo sedatha ngesimo sezimali bobabili bobabili futhi ngubani kubo okwazi ukuqinisekisa kangcono ukuphila komntwana, okungenzeka ukuthi ingane izoba ngcono ngokuphathelene nemfundo, njll. Yamukelwa ukunakwa kanye nemibono kwi-akhawunti yengane yakho.
Lapho behlukanisa enkantolo nengane, abazali babhekene nomsebenzi obalulekile: kungenzeka ukuthi uchaze ingane ukuthi, nakuba bengayikuhlala ndawonye ndawonye, ​​bayakuthanda futhi bayomthanda ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi uzohlala ekwazi ukuxhumana nopapa nonina.