Ukwahlukanisa noma, ngolimi olomile lomthetho, isehlukaniso sihlale siyinhlekelele emndenini. Ukuhlukanana phambi kwezingane, ikakhulukazi nengane kuze kube unyaka, ngokuvamile kubonakala kungenakwenzeka ukushada. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, yonke imibhangqwana engakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye, ihlale iphikisana futhi ithole ubuhlobo, kodwa iqinisekisa ukungafuni kwabo ukuhlukanisa ngokuba khona kwezingane, kufanelekile ukucabangela: ingabe ngempela ingane ihlala kangcono emndenini lapho abazali behlala bexabana khona? Ngeke yini kube lokhu kwengqondo enkulu
ukuhlukunyezwa kwengane?
Kulesi sihloko, sizokhuluma ngesahluko sezomthetho sesahlukaniso, cabanga ukuthi isehlukaniso senziwa kanjani, uma kukhona izingane ezincane, ingane ehlala kuyo lapho ihlukanisa, njll.Inqubo yesehlukaniso phambi kwezingane
Izimo zesehlukaniso phambi kwezingane zihluke kakhulu ezimweni zesehlukaniso, lapho kungekho khona izingane. Yiqiniso, lokhu kungenxa yesidingo sokucabangela amalungelo nezithakazelo zezingane. Izinkinga eziyinhloko emshadweni wabashadile abanezingane ezivame ukutholakala ukuthi ubani ohlala esahlukaneni. Lokhu kuhlolisisa isimo somzimba somlingani ngamunye, ukutholakala kwesikhala sokuhlala esifanele izingane, nezinye izimo ezidingekayo, kanye nemvume yezingane ngokuhlukanisa (okungukuthi, uma ingane iveza isifiso sokuhlala nomunye wabazali, inkantolo kumele ihlolisise lesi sifiso).
Ngokungafani nesahlukaniso esivamile, isehlukaniso singenziwa kuphela enkantolo, phambi kwezingane, ngoba kulokhu kuyadingeka ukuba ngokomthetho ulungise imiphumela ethile yomthetho yesehlukaniso: ukwehlukaniswa kwempahla, isabelo se-alimony, inqubo yokukhulisa izingane ezivamile kanye nendawo yokuhlala. Kodwa-ke, kunamacala amaningi lapho ukuhlukanisa kwenzeka khona ehhovisi lokubhalisa, ngisho noma abashadile banezingane ezijwayelekile ezincane uma:
- Oshade naye ubonakala engakwazi.
- Oshade naye ubonakala engekho.
- Oshade naye ulahlwe yicala futhi ugwetshwe ejele iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-3.
Ngokujwayelekile inqubo yesehlukaniso ingaqaliswa omunye wabashade (ngisho ngaphandle kwemvume yomunye), ngaphandle kokuphela kwesikhathi sokukhulelwa komfazi kanye nomnyaka wokuqala emva kokuzalwa kwengane (ngisho noma ingane izalwa ifile noma ingahlali ngonyaka) - kulokhu indoda ayinelungelo lokuhlukanisa ngaphandle kwemvume ke abafazi. Kulezi zimo, ngisho noma izicelo zombili zomshado zamukelwa ekuqaleni, futhi ngesikhathi socwaningo umfazi waqala ukuphikisa isahlukaniso, icala lehlukaniso liyaxoshwa.
Ukuze uthole isehlukaniso phambi kwezingane ezincane, udinga ukufaka icala enkantolo. Ifomu layo kanye nenani lomsebenzi wombuso okufanele likhokhelwe ngesikhathi esifanayo lilawulwa yizenzo ezifanele kanye nemithetho yomthetho. Isinqumo sokuthi ngubani nokuthi yiziphi izinkokhelo ezizokhokha imali yombuso yokuqeda umshado, abashade nabo ngokwabo banquma. Ungafaka isicelo kokubili ngokwakho futhi ngosizo lommeli. Ungafaka isicelo enkantolo yasendaweni (endaweni yokuhlala omunye wabashade). Uma bobabili abashadile bevumelana ngesehlukaniso futhi beye baxazulula imibuzo mayelana nokukhuliswa nokuphila kwezingane, ukuvikeleka kwezezimali, ukwabiwa kwempahla, njll, isivumelwano sinamathele kulesi sicelo, lapho konke lokhu kuboniswa khona.
Kuncike ekuvumelaneni (ukungavumelani) kokubili abashadile ngokuhlukanisa, umsebenzi wokusebenza kwezikhali zokwahlulela ngalesi sikhathi, ukungabi khona noma ukutholakala kokubambezeleka kokufakelwa kwezenzo zesehlukaniso, njll. isikhathi sokuxazulula inkinga yokuhlukanisa isilinganiso sezinyanga eziyi-1.5-3.
Uma ngesikhathi esimisiwe abashadile abangekho enkantolo (ngaphandle kokusebenza
Kodwa khumbula: Uma unezingane ezivamile ngesikhathi sesahlukaniso, zama ukwenza lolu hlelo lube mncane ngangokunokwenzeka kubo - ungakhulumi kabi ngomlingani wakho, ungafungi izingane, ingane akufanele icabange ukuthi ibangele ukuxabana noma uzizwe ungenasisekelo ngoba ukuthi abazali bakhe abahlali ndawonye.