Umbuzo wokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuguqula isiphetho, ukukhathazeka abantu basendulo. Namuhla, akuwona wonke umuntu okholelwa ukuthi konke kuyisiphetho esinqunyiwe, kodwa lapho kwenzeka izingozi eziningi ezisolisayo, bambalwa abantu abangeke bacabange ukuthi lokhu kungenakugwemeka. Uma sithatha kalula ukuthi ezinye izinto ezibalulekile zokuphila kwethu zisacacisiwe kusengaphambili, kusekhona umbuzo wokuthi ungashintsha kanjani ikusasa? Emva kwakho konke, hhayi njalo okukhona, kungahambisana nomuntu.
Ungashintsha kanjani isiphetho ukuze ube ngcono?
Ngesinye isikhathi umuntu unomlutha kakhulu ezindabeni zansuku zonke ukuthi uyakhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi uya kuphi. Futhi ngesikhathi lapho eqala ukuzibona khona futhi, kubuye kube nokuqaphela ukuthi ukuphila akuyona neze lokho angathanda ukukubona.
Uma uthola ukuthi ikusasa lakho alihambanga ngendlela ongathanda ngayo, zama ukuhlaziya isimo kusuka ezinhlangothini ezahlukene:
- Wafika kanjani kulokho okuyikho?
- Yini okungahambisani nawe ngokuqondile?
- Ungalungisa kanjani into engahambisani nawe?
- Ingabe unelisekile ngezinga elilodwa lokuphila?
- Yini okwenzile kakade ukushintsha isimo?
Njengomthetho, umbuzo wokugcina uyisihluthulelo. Uma impilo yakho ingakufanelanga, futhi nje uyayibona, kodwa awukwenzi lutho okwamanje - usendleleni engalungile. Ukuze uthole iqiniso elisha, udinga ukuthatha izinyathelo ezintsha.
Abaningi baphikisana ngokuthi amandla okucabanga ashintsha kanjani ikusasa. Noma kunjalo, umcabango kulokhu kungakusiza ukwakha izenzo ezengeziwe ezokusiza ukuthi ushintshe konke, bese konke kushintshe izenzo kakade!
Uma ungathandi umsebenzi wakho - bheka okusha. Uma ucabanga ukuthi italenta yakho ishiywe ngaphandle kwegama elifanele, khangela indlela yokutshela abantu ngakho.
Ungashintsha kanjani isiphetho nothando?
Abantu abaningi abanobuhlobo obuyinkimbinkimbi bayaqiniseka - lesi siphetho sibaletha ndawonye nomuntu othize. Kodwa uma uqaphela ukuthi ulungiselelwe kumlingani oyedwa, ubuhlobo obunzima obungenakwenzeka ngezizathu eziningana, cabanga ngakho - mhlawumbe lokhu kuyisibonakaliso ukuthi udinga ukuthatha ikusasa lakho ezandleni zakho futhi uziqede?
Ukuze uthando lwakho lukunike injabulo , ungavumeli ukuba uthandane nanoma ubani. Gcina inhliziyo yakho ekukhiyeni, ungavumeli abantu abangaphezulu kuwo. Lokhu kulula kakhulu kunokubekezelela ukukhathazeka okuningi ngezizathu zothando.