Ngokuvamile ezimpilweni zethu kunezimo lapho umuntu esinikeza esisha, esingalindelekile, kodwa lokhu kubonakala kuyisisombululo esilula sombuzo othize, emva kwalokho siyamangala isikhathi eside: "Yebo! Ngingakucabange kanjani ngalokhu ngaphambili? "Futhi isizathu silula - kufihliwe phambi kwayo yonke into yokucabanga okungewona okujwayelekile. Omunye unayo ngemvelo. Futhi labo abathoba ngempela bangatholakala.
Ukuthuthukiswa kokucabanga okungeyona ejwayelekile kuyindaba yesifiso sakho nesikhathi. Ngenxa yalokhu, ososayensi, abacwaningi kanye nabathandayo nje benza imisebenzi ehlukahlukene-izigqoko, izihlubuki kanye nokuhlolwa. Izimo zabo zenziwe ngokukhethekile ngendlela yokuthi unephethini elithile ekhanda lakho. Futhi ukuze uthole isisombululo esifanele - udinga ukushiya. Njengomthetho, ukuhlolwa kokucabanga okungeyona ejwayelekile kuyadluliselwa kalula yizingane - azikatholakali ngaphansi kwezimiso zomphakathi jikelele kanye nokucabanga okungafani.
Abantu abaningi abaneminyaka ekhulile kakhulu abanandaba nokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okucabanga. Siyaqiniseka ukuthi ngokucabanga kwethu konke kuhlelekile futhi konke esingakuhlakulela nokwenza ngaphakathi kwethu kwatholakala njengengane. Nakuba ukucabanga kuyisisetshenziswa esiyinhloko esisebenzisayo empilweni yanamuhla. Esikoleni, singase sikwazi ukufundiswa ukulalela, ikhono lokubheka iphuzu lomuntu womuntu ngaphandle kokukhononda, njengeqiniso elilodwa kuphela, ngenxa yalokho ingqondo yethu ivaliwe kwezinye imibono.
Abantu abanokucabanga okungavamile ngokuvamile banomqondo ocebile, amakhono angavamile angenangqondo, hhayi nje kuphela isici sokuhlakanipha.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ukucabanga okungajwayelekile?
Abaqeqeshi ekukhuleni komuntu siqu kumasifundisane abo batusa ukunaka ukuthuthukiswa kokucabanga okungeyona ejwayelekile, tk. njengamanje njengenye yezinto eziyigugu kakhulu zomuntu ngamunye. Banikeza izincomo ezinjalo:
- Sebenzisa isimiso "sosizi olusha." Funda ukuyeka lokho okwaziyo manje, buka isimo, ngaphandle kokuzibonela kanye nemibono yangaphambili. Abaningi bezemfundo nabososayensi, naphezu kokuzethemba kwabo kolwazi lwabo, balungele ukuyibeka ekuqinisekiseni nasekungabazeni, uma idatha entsha ingahlanganiswa nayo.
- Ukuqoqwa kokuhlangenwe nakho okuqondile. Khumbula ukuthi ngisho nokuba enkampanini yezobuchwepheshe usalokhu ungumuntu oyinhloko yokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Ungesabi ukubuza imibuzo bese ubonisa umbono wakho. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okukhona, ama-nuances angaphezu kwakho uzokwazi ukuwacabangela esikhathini esizayo lapho wenza izinqumo.
- Ukusebenzisa "imibono yekhredithi." Kuzokusiza ukuthi uqaphele okwenzekayo, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukwazi kwakho ngokwayo kuzobambelela ezikhathini ezihlukahlukene zokuphila, uzame ukubuka imibono emisha, engavamile nezinqumo. Lungisa yonke imibono efika engqondweni yakho, khona-ke iyokhula emqondweni wakho ongaqondakali, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucabanga ngabo noma cha.
- Zama ukucabanga kancane "kusuka kuwe" nokunye ukucacisa noma yikuphi isimo. Qaphela imininingwane, kodwa ungalokothi ukhohlwe isithombe esikhulu. Kuyinto ukuhlanganiswa kwazo zonke amaqiniso ndawonye okuzokusiza ukuba ungabonakali futhi uzokunika ithuba lokuthi "ngibheke" ngokulinganayo ngayinye yazo.
Ukunquma ukuthi ukucabanga kwakho kuthuthukiswe, ipulasitiki futhi iguquguquke, ungadlulisa ukuhlolwa kokucabanga okungeyona ejwayelekile. Isimiso sokuhlola okunjalo, njengokungumthetho, ukubeka "ukulala" emsebenzini wendawo yakho yesokunxele yobuchopho, obangela ukucabanga okunengqondo, bese ubuza imibuzo engalindelekile. Ukuthi uzokwazi kanjani ukusabela masinyane, nokuthi impendulo yakho ingavamile kangakanani futhi izinga lokungahambisani nokucabanga kwakho kuxhomeke. Endaweni efanayo, izibalo ngokuvamile zinikezwa lapho imibono yabantu abaningi iboniswa khona.
Isivivinyo sokucabanga okungavamile - izibonelo
Kunemibuzo eminingi ukuhlola iphethini yokucabanga. Sinike izibonelo zezinye zazo kuphela:
1. Kudingeka uphendule ngokushesha, ngaphandle kokucabanga.
- Imuphi umbala iphepha?
- Mhlophe.
- Yimuphi umbala isitsha sezindlu zangasese?
- Mhlophe.
- Iluphi umbala iqhwa?
- Mhlophe.
- Iyini inkomo?
- Ubisi.
Omunye umsebenzi walolu hlobo:
- Ziyini ezimbili esigcawini?
- Ezine.
- Futhi yiziphi ezintathu esigcawini?
- Nine.
- Futhi iyini i-angle engesikwele?
Akusizi ngalutho, - ngokuvamile izimpendulo ze-interlocutor, ubuchopho obuvele bujabulele ulwazi lwe-arithmetical enkumbulweni, lubavikela ekuvela kwamanye amazwi.
Eqinisweni, i-angle ebhokisini - ayikho lutho. Kodwa sikhuluma ngenye into - isibalo sejometri. I-angle ekhoneni yizigaba ezingamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye.
3. I-enigmatic ithatha iphepha bese ibhala: "Inkukhu, iPushkin, Tolstoy, Apple Tree, Nose" futhi ibuza imibuzo elandelayo:
- Izinkukhu?
- Umbongi waseRashiya?
- Umlobi waseRussia?
- Umuthi wezithelo?
- Ingxenye yobuso?
Ukuthola izimpendulo, kuvela iphepha, futhi ngamaphesenti angama-99% izimpendulo zenziwa ukuthi ziqatshelwe (Yebo, uma umuntu engazange ahlangabezane nalokhu kuhlaselwa ngaphambi).
Omunye wabalobi abathandwayo kakhulu nezikhulumi zomphakathi ekucabangeni okuphelele nguPaul Sloan. Ubhala izincwadi futhi aqhuba amakhomitha enhloko yobuciko, emisha kanye nentuthuko ehlukahlukene.