Psychology of Friendship

Kungani abantu beqala ukuba abangane? Ingabe laba bantu ngokuqondile, hhayi abanye? Yini ewaxhuma?

Ukuphendula, kubonakala sengathi, umphakathi wabantu abalingiswa , izithakazelo, isifiso esingaqondakali sokungabi nesizungu - esibonakala kithi psychology of ubungani ekuqaleni. Kodwa, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, njengoba ebheke kancane, konke kuvela ngakwezinye izindlela.

Iyini i-psychology yobungane?

Empilweni yangempela, sivame ukubhekana nezibonelo ngokuphelele ezingenangqondo neziphikisanayo, lapho abantu abanama-psychotypes ahlukene ngokweqiniso bengenakuphila ngaphandle komunye nomunye. Omunye ungumchwepheshe, umthombo owenza izinto ezizwakalayo kuphela futhi unikeza ukuhlolwa okulinganiselwe kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo, omunye okuthandwayo, ongathandeki, onenkondlo ... kodwa, njengoba bethi, "ungachithi amanzi". Kungani? Kunombono wokuthi kulokhu isizathu esiyinhloko sokuba ubungane babo siqondile kakhulu! Bobabili basuka kokunye kanye nalokho abangenakho, nokuthi yini abangase bafune ukuba nayo, kodwa njengoba bekusho, uNkulunkulu akazange anikeze ... Kulokhu abangekho emiphakathini yabo abayikuvuma, akeke ukhulume ekulalelweni ... Biphikisana omunye nomunye nganoma yisiphi isizathu, abakwazi ukudala umbono owodwa nganoma yini, kodwa bakhangwa ekukhulumisaneni, kuhle, okungenani baqhekeke!

Isibonelo esivamile sobuhlobo obunjalo ubuhlobo bukaYersh noKaras kusukela ezindabeni ezidumile zikaSaltykov-Shchedrin.

Isibonelo esandulele, Yebo, sibhekisela ngaphezulu kwendoda, ngakho-ke kusho ubungane "obunengqondo", osengqondweni yabo esekelwe ekushintshaneni kolwazi oluyiqiniso nokuhlola kwalo, okungukuthi, ubuncane bemizwelo , enengqondo enkulu ...

Yi-psychology yobungane besifazane! Fuck logical! Esihogweni namaqiniso! Imizwelo nokuzwela yi-alpha ne-omega ye-psychology yabesifazane! Futhi ubungane obuphakathi kwabo ngokuyinhloko luyisivunguvungu semizwelo kanye nama-shaft of halftones. Abesifazane amahora sebekulungele ukuxoxa ngezinto ezibalulekile kubo, into umuntu angasoze alalela ngayo ekuphileni!

Isibonelo esinobuhlobo obunjalo nguDaddy mnandi kuzo zonke izimo futhi u-Lady umane nje umnandi kusuka emiphefumulweni ye-Gogol's Dead Souls.