Ukuhunyushwa kahle kwamazwi, imidwebo emihle futhi eyenziwe kahle, kanye nokukwazi ukuxhumana nabantu kunquma umuntu njengomuntu. Izazi zengqondo ziye zafakazela ukuthi u-25% womqondo wokuqala womuntu kuxhomeke ekutheni akwazi ukukhuluma kahle, yingakho kubalulekile ukwazi ukukhuluma kahle futhi kahle.
Indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma nabantu ngendlela efanele?
Ake sizame ukuthola indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma ngokufaneleka, ngokwemvelo nangendlela efanele:
- Ungasebenzisi amagama e-slang . Le nkinga ihambelana nesizukulwane esincane. Abantu abasha basetshenziselwa ukusebenzisa amagama e-slang empilweni yabo ukuthi bangawasebenzisa ngokuzithandela, isibonelo, ekuxoxweni nenkampani yamaphupho abo, okungahle kuphazamise umbono wabashayeli.
- Njalo faka i-accent ngendlela efanele! Vumelanisa ukuthi akumnandi kakhulu ukulalela inkulumo ephikisiwe ngegama elibi lamazwi. Iphutha elivame kakhulu igama elithi "amasongo". Ngakho-ke, umuntu ofundela ukufunda angeke athi "zvonit", uzobeka ukucindezeleka esivumelwaneni sesibili.
- Lahla amagama-ama-parasites . Uke waphawula ukuthi i-interlocutor yakho isetshenziswa kanjani njalo enkulumweni yakhe amagama aphikisayo njenge "okufishane", "like", "uhlobo", njll? Vumelanisa, akumnandi kakhulu ukulalela indaba egcwele emazwini anjalo. Ukuze wenze inkulumo yakho ifunde futhi ijabulise indlebe, uzodinga cishe amasonto amabili. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubeka umgomo wokuqeda lo mkhuba omubi!
- Qhubeka uphinde ugcwalise amagama akho . Ukuze uphinde ungathuli futhi ungathuli, usesho amagama afanele, zama ukufunda kabanzi futhi uxoxe nabantu. Umuntu ofanelekayo uhlale enento ethize, kumnandi ukumlalela futhi naye, okubaluleke ngempela, kumnandi ukuxhumana.
- Ungasebenzisi amagama angaphandle kumazwi . Ngokuvamile, uma umuntu kudingeka abhekane nezinye izilimi emsebenzini, uqala ukusebenzisa amagama angaphandle kwezinye izinkulumo zakhe. Kulesi simo, kudingeka uqaphele ngokukhethekile lapho usebenzisana nabanye abantu.
Kulungile kanjani ukukhuluma efonini?
Ukuxhumana okunembile komuntu othile efonini, kukhuluma ngesilinganiso sokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nokukhuliswa kwakhe. Umuntu komunye umkhawulo wocingo ngeke akwazi ukubuka ukubukeka kwakho, kodwa ngendlela yokuxhumana kuyoba isithombe esithile sakho. Futhi kubalulekile ukuthi lo mfanekiso uveza kuphela izici zakho ezinhle.
Ngakho, ukukhuluma kahle efonini, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho elandelayo:
- Izingxoxo zebhizinisi kufanele ziqale ekuseni. Isikhathi esihle sokuhlela umhlangano noma ukuxoxa ngemininingwane ebalulekile kusuka ngo-10: 00 kuya ku-13: 00. Ngalesi sikhathi, umzimba wethu usebenze futhi uphume amandla.
- Bhala ngobumnene inombolo yocingo, ngaphandle kwalokho ubeka ingozi yokungena ku-interlocutor ye-hamovatogo,
futhi lokhu kungaphazamisa isimo sengqondo. - Uma ufika komunye umuntu, ungazami ukumtshela ngokushesha konke okudingayo. Okokuqala uzethule, vumela lowo muntu ekugcineni aqonde ukuthi ubani okhuluma naye. Qinisekisa ukutshela ukuthi iyiphi inhlangano ovela kuyo futhi ucacise ukuthi kungcono kanjani ukubhekana nomxhumanisi nokuthi kungcono yini ukuthi akhulume manje. Futhi emva kokuthi uzwise isisekelo sekholi yakho.
- Khuluma ngomzwelo, ngokulungiswa. Khumbula ukuthi inkulumo obiza ngayo amagama ngokuvamile iphumelela kakhulu kunamagama ngokwabo.
- Unganqikazi ukusho izincomo ku-interlocutor, futhi khumbula njalo ukuthi ingxoxo yocingo ingxoxo, futhi udinga ukunikezwa ithuba lokufaka amagama kanye ne-interlocutor.
Ukuze ufunde indlela efanele, uxhumane nabantu kanye nabaphathi, kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokusebenzisa izinkulumo ze-slang, amagama aphikisayo kanye nokuhlelwa kahle kwamaphuzu okubhala.