Abaningi bayakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi ukuziqhenya kuyini, kodwa akubona wonke umuntu ongavuma ukuthi ahlaselwa yilo wesinye izono eziyisishiyagalombili ezibulalayo. Umuntu onokuzihlonipha nokuzikholelwa kwakhe ekuziphatheni kwakhe ngokwakhe uzibheka njengelungile, kakhulu-kakhulu, okusho ukuthi labo ababona ukwehluleka kwakhe bamane bephutha, ngoba akanalo.
Ukubonakaliswa kokuziqhenya
Le mfanelo yobuntu ibonakala kanjani? Indoda iyamangalela noma yimuphi umuntu, hhayi yena. Uhlale egxeka umuntu, uyamcasula umuntu. Emsebenzini abayithokozi, abahloniphi indlu, futhi emva kokuhle kuhle futhi ngokuvamile kuhamba phambili. Into ebuhlungu kunazo zonke ukuthi ukuhlola okwanele ngokwakho kuholela emiphumeleni ebulalayo, engasakwazi ukuguqulwa. Kungani isono sokuziqhenya nge-Orthodoxy kubhekwa njengenye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Ngenxa yokuthi ikhula njengesifo somdlavuza, sizifihla ngaphansi kwezinye izibonakaliso nezimpawu zokuzibulala futhi ngokuningi futhi kudla ukuphila komuntu, okuholele ekufeni, njengokungathi kunomdlavuza, kodwa ekuqotheni komuntu , ukuzodwa okuphelele nokwenqaba uNkulunkulu.
Emva kwakho konke, ukuze ukholwe kuYe, ukuqonda ukuthi konke okwenzekayo empilweni kwenziwa ngentando kaNkulunkulu, hhayi ngokuthanda komuntu siqu, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi kukhona ukuziqhenya kuye, futhi umuntu ophuphuthekiswe yilo wesono akakwazi ukwenza lokho.
Izimpawu zokuziqhenya:
- ukuzihawukela, ukufutheka ngokweqile;
- ukuthokoza ngokuphathelene nabanye;
- ukuzibonga nokuziqhayisa;
- ukuziqhenya kubonakala ekuthobiseni abanye futhi kunciphise ukufaneleka kwabo;
- ukulahlwa nokugxeka abanye abantu, kodwa ukungabi nokuziqhenya okuphelele;
- amanga, ukuthuka, imicabango yokuziphakamisa kwakho.
Lokhu akulona uhlu oluphelele lokubonakaliswa kwalokhu ikhwalithi yobuntu, ukuziqhenya nakho kunikeza ukungabi nalutho, okuyinto
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungaqeda kanjani ukuziqhenya nokuziqhayisa, okokuqala kufanelekile ukuphenduka futhi uzame ukuqinisa lesi silwane esingenakulinganiswa. Hlakulela ukuthobeka ngaphakathi kwakho, uphendule ngokwanele ukugxeka futhi ulalele amazwi abanye, uhloniphe umbono womunye umuntu, ujabulele lokho onakho futhi ungabacasuli kwabanye abantu, ubavumele ukuba babe ngabanye. Siza abanye futhi ubuke isizathu sokubonga. Nika abantu ukumomotheka nokufudumala, futhi bazophendula ngomusa.