Usuku nosuku ukwenza ezinye izenzo nokwenza izinqumo, kancane kancane sakha impilo yethu. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi sithathwa kakhulu ngemininingwane esivame ukuyikhohlwa ukuthi konke okusizungezile kuwumphumela wokuzikhethela nomsebenzi wethu. Ngakho, konke okukuzungezile, okujabulisayo noma cha, ungashintsha futhi. Kungenzeka yini ukushintsha impilo? Yebo, yebo!
Ungashintsha kanjani impilo yakho kakhulu?
Uma uqonda ukuthi awukho endaweni yakho, uma ungenelisekile yizinto eziningi ozibonayo eziseduze nawe, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi isikhathi sesifikile sokushintsha. Uma ufuna ukushintsha konke okuphawulekayo, qaphela ngokucophelela ukuthi lezi zinguquko kufanele zibe yiziphi:
- Yiziphi izindawo zokuphila okufanele ziguquke?
- Yini okufanele iqukethe?
- Ingabe isimo noma uyibona kanjani?
- Yini okwenzile kakade ukushintsha konke?
- Yini ongayenza?
Okubaluleke kakhulu - ungesabi ushintsho. Kuhlale kuphazamisa, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuphela ngale ndlela kungakuholela enjabulweni . Khipha okungajabulisi wena, futhi wengeze empilweni yakho lokho okuzokunika injabulo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi idlulela kwelinye idolobha, ukuyeka ubudlelwane obuyinkimbinkimbi noma imisebenzi eguqukayo.
Ungashintsha kanjani isimo sengqondo sokuphila?
Noma kunjalo, kuzo zonke izinguquko zekhadikhadi akudingeki njalo. Ngezinye izikhathi ungashintsha impilo yakho ngokushintsha imicabango yakho nokubona kwakho .
Umuntu akhumbuli isimo ngokwaso, kodwa imizwa yakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, uma ufinyelele emcimbini omkhulu ngeso lengqondo, uzokhumbula kuphela lokho owadabukisayo ngakho. Abantu abaningi, ngaphandle kokuziqonda ngokwabo, baphatha ukuhlala isikhathi eside kakhulu - esimweni esingenabuhlungu nesimo esingajabuli.
Uma ujwayele umbono obalulekile wokuphila, phawula ukuthi kubi, hhayi okuhle, kuyoba nzima kakhulu kuwe, ngoba kuzodingeka ushintshe isimo sakho sengqondo ngokukhululekile. Qala ngalezi zinyathelo ezilula:
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, thola esimweni okungenani izinhlangothi ezintathu ezinhle.
- Ukwenqaba ukugxeka wena nabanye, vumelani konke njengokungokoqobo.
- Landelela imicabango yakho engafanele bese uyishintsha ngokuhle. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokuthi "godu le mvula yobuwula" iqala ukucabanga "O, imvula, kuzakuba namakhowe amanengi kulo nyaka."
Into esemqoka yisifiso sakho. Uma unakekela ngokujulile, ungabona ukuthi impilo yakho igcwele izikhathi eziningi ezinhle. Kudingeka ukuba bagxilwe ngamabomu, futhi maduzane uzothola ukuthi impilo inhle futhi iyamangalisa.