Ukucindezeleka ... Lesi sizwe sijwayele abaningi bethu, uma ungafuni ukwenza noma yini, ungakujabuleli lokho okwakubangelwa yizimpikiswano ezinkulu, futhi impilo ilahlekelwa incazelo yayo. Ngesikhathi sezulu esibanda kakhulu, lapho kungasebenzi emsebenzini, futhi ubudlelwane nezihlobo akukhuthazi, akusona isono sokuwela ithemba, kodwa leli zwe liyadlulela ngokushesha, kodwa kulabo abangakwazi ukuthi benzeni uma ungafuni ukuhlala, kufaneleka ukufunda lesi sihloko kuze kube sekupheleni.
Umsebenzi womzimba
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungahlala kanjani, uma ungafuni, kufanele uwakhumbule uMunchhausen, owakhupha emanzini ngezinwele zakhe. Noma i-frog, efakwe ejug of ukhilimu omuncu, ngakho-ke ngifuna ukuxoshwa, ukuthi angizange ngizisole ngokushaywa ukhilimu omuncu, okwathi kamuva wangisiza ukuzikhulula. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukuba ziphume ekucindezelekeni ngezinyawo zazo ngomqondo wangempela wezwi. Okusho ukuthi, kufanele ukwandise umsebenzi wakho wezimoto, uhambe kabanzi, hamba, uthenge ukubhalisela echibini noma isikhungo sokufaneleka. Kungani umdlalo ukwanda kwemizwelo? Ngakho-ke, ekuhambeni, i-hormone endorphin noma i-hormone yenjabulo ikhiqizwa.
Ukuhlaziywa kokwenzekile
Njengoba ucindezelekile futhi ungafuni ukuhlala, kungaba kuhle ukuhlaziya isimo esiholele kulokhu, hhayi ukuphindaphinda amaphutha anjalo esikhathini esizayo. Ingabe babekhokha imali enkulu ebhange? Ngakho uhlala ngaphesheya kwezinto zakho futhi kufanele ulinganise izicelo. Ushiye othandekayo? Ngakho, kwakukhona isizathu futhi into ethile yamphoqelela ukuba ashiye. Kuyafaneleka ukuhlaziya ukuziphatha kwakho nokuziphatha ngokuhlukile ebuhlotsheni obusha. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, konke kufanele kubonakale kuhlangothi oluhle futhi. Isikweletu semali singase singabonakali sikhulu njengoba sasikhona ekuqaleni, futhi uma uqala ukusebenza ne-redoubled force, uzoyiyeka ngokushesha. Othandekayo uye washiya, kodwa wayenhle yini, futhi mhlawumbe ubuhlobo buvele buphelile?
Ukuxazulula izinkinga
Ukuthola ukuthi kungani ungafuni ukuhlala, kufanelekile ukuqala ukuxazulula le nkinga. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukuthola labo ababi kakhulu futhi baqale ukuzisiza. Isibonelo, ukuze ube yivolontiya futhi ujabulise izivakashi zamakhaya abakhubazekile, izintandane. Ungahambi ngisho nakude, ngoba ungadinga usizo kumakhelwane omdala, osomshana abangatholi ulimi oluvamile nabazali babo, nomama wabo noma ubaba wabo.
Uma ungafuni ukuhlala nhlobo, ungahamba nokusebenza ikhanda lakho - liphazamisa kakhulu emicabangweni edabukisayo. Umoya uzothuthuka uma uthola imali engu-N-th kanye nomsebenzi ongazivuza ngokuya e-spa, uhambo oluya e-resort, nokuthenga okulula kwento yangasese entsha. Ukungabi nalutho emphefumulweni kugcwele imizwelo nokuvezwa kokuzilibazisa okusha, izinto zokuzilibazisa , njll. Uma kukhona iphupho, manje yisikhathi sokuliqalisa.
Into esemqoka ukuqonda ukuthi impilo inikezwa kanye futhi kuyisiwula ukuyivala ngokushesha. Ngemuva kwalokho, noma yini eyenzekayo, iyaqhubeka, futhi akekho owaziyo ukuthi yini esizoyijikeleza. Mhlawumbe kusasa ithikithi lucky lottery lingena esandleni futhi kuyokwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zakho impahla ngesikhathi esisodwa. Futhi labo abaphupha ngothando sebevele balinde ukuphela kwabo,
Ukuphila akunakulinganiswa futhi kulungiselela izimanga eziningi kangaka ukuthi kungaba yisono sokubala futhi ungaboni ukuthi kuzokwenzekani kusasa. Kubalulekile ukuthola okungenani isizathu esisodwa sokuhlala kuleli zwe. Isibonelo, izingane. Le ngxabano enamandla, ikakhulukazi kumama. Ukuze ukhule nabo, ukunikeza ukuqala empilweni kuwumsebenzi omkhulu kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo womzali ngamunye. Phatha abantu bakudala ezweni elihlukile bese ubapha intela kukho konke abakwenzayo.