Ukubambisana kuyinkimbinkimbi eyinkimbinkimbi yemicikilisho ekhombisa ukuthi isixhumanisi esingabonakali phakathi komama nengane, esiyi ngaphezu kwamagama, ukuqonda kanye nemizwelo. Ukubambisana ukuqonda kwengane yakho, incazelo yezifiso zakhe, izidingo kanye nokunganeliseki ngokusebenzisa izimpawu ezingenakuqondakala nezingenakuqondakala, ukuzithokozisa, imisindo.
Ukubambisana - ukuqonda okunembile
Isibonelo esicacile sokubopha kwachazwa ekubonweni kwamantombazane abancane eGuatemala. Bazalele abantwana ekubelethweni ezibelethweni zabo, bezilungisa ngezindwangu zendwangu, into efana nezindwangu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abasebenzisi ama-diapers noma ama-diapers, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bahlale bomile futhi behlanzekile. Futhi uma ingane ifuna ukuya endlini yangasese, imane imtshale ngaphansi kwesihlahla esiseduze. Embuzweni wokuthi bazinquma kanjani umzuzu ofanele, badidekile - futhi abantu ngokuvamile banquma kanjani ukuthi yini abayidingayo endlini yangasese? Okusho ukuthi, bazizwa izidingo zezingane ezingeni elivulekile ngisho nangaphambi kokuba ingane encane ifunde ukuyiveza ngokucacile.
Ngokuphathelene nenzuzo eqondile yengane, ukubambisana kusiza ukwakha izimfanelo zomuntu siqu emntwaneni. Ngakho-ke, umntwana owakhulela othandweni uthanda izwe elikuzungezile. Uma umama alalele ngokucophelela imizwa yakhe nezidingo zakhe, ngokuphila komuntu omdala naye uzwela uzwela futhi uzwela izidingo nezifiso zabanye. Ngamafuphi, ukubambisana kusiza ekwakheni ubuntu obuphilile, obugcwele.
Ukubambisana kuyinto ezuzisayo, kodwa ayikwazi ukufundwa ngenhloso. Yakha kancane kancane kusukela ngaleso sikhathi lapho lo wesifazane ezwa ushintsho emzimbeni wakhe futhi wabona amaphuzu amabili kulesi sivivinyo.
Izinyathelo zokwakha ukubopha
1. Ukukhulelwa kuyisakramente yokuthela impilo entsha, lapho owesifazane ekulungiswe ngokucophelela ngokwemvelo. Unemizwa emisha, izintandokazi nezinto eziza kuqala. Akasakwazi ukusebenza ngokugcwele futhi uhlale efuna ukuphumula. Ngokusho ukuthi, lapho kuqala ukukhulelwa, owesifazane akaseyona ilungu eligcwele lomphakathi, uba ngumama nomsebenzi wakhe oyinhloko kulesi sigaba ukuzicabangela inqubo yokubeletha, ukuzizwa uxhumano nengane yakhe engakazalwa. Ngeshwa, izimo zanamuhla zabaningi ziphoqa abesifazane, futhi kaningi abanalo ithuba lokuzikhishwa ngokuphelele ngokwabo kanye nokukhulelwa kwabo, ngoba ukuqala kokusungulwa kokubopha kungaphula.
2. Ukubelethwa akuyona nje ukuhlolwa komama kuphela, kodwa nangomntwana. Kubalulekile ukuthi inqubo umama ezolile, enhle futhi engesabi, ngaphandle kwalokho imizwa emibi iyodluliselwa kwengane. Okubalulekile kanye nemizuzu yokuqala yokuphila komntanakho, kulesi sikhundla kubalulekile ukuthi umama, ngemuva kokumbamba umntwana ngemuva kokucindezeleka kokubeletha, ukubuyisela kancane kancane izimo zangaphambili zokunethezeka ezikhona. Kule nkathi, lapho kunenkululeko enamandla yamahomoni egazini, umama usemeni owaziwayo, eduze kwe-trance. Igalela ngokuqondile ekusungulweni kokubambisana - manje umama uyakwazi ukuqonda nokuzwa ingane yakhe esanda kuzalwa.
Ezweni lanamuhla eliphucukile, akuvamile uma umsebenzi uhlinzeka ngaphandle kokungenelela kwezokwelapha, ukungenelela kwemithi,
3. Isikhathi somntwana osanda kuzalwa . Kubaluleke kakhulu ngalesi sigaba ingane isondelene nomama. Ukuze ubugqila bungasungulwa futhi buqiniswe ngokuqinile, ukuxhumana okuqhubekayo nokuxhumana phakathi komama nengane kuyadingeka. Izibhedlela zanamuhla zokubeletha, ngangokunokwenzeka, zama ukubhekana nezimo ezidingekayo ngokuhlela amakamelo okuhlala komama nomntwana. Ukuqiniswa okuqhubekayo kokukhulumisana kuhlinzekwa ukulala okuhlangene , ukuthungatha futhi ngokuxhumana njalo nomntwana nonina.