Iyiphi insizwa ephuthumayo yokuphumula emzimbeni wesifazane?
Ngokusho kwezibalo, namuhla, intombazane ehlala edolobheni, eneminyaka engu-22 ubudala, isivele inezimo zobulili, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, kuze kube manje, njengamanje, sekukhona kakade nabalingani abaningi bezocansi. Kodwa-ke, cishe amantombazane angama-20% awasheshi ukungena ekuphileni kocansi kuze kube iminyaka engu-25-27, ngenkathi elinde kuphela.
Uma sicabangela izitatimende ze-sexologists, khona-ke ukulahlekelwa isikhathi sobumsulwa sekuphenduka ukuthuthuka okuncane komuntu wesifazane. Ezimweni ezinjalo, i- orgasm enobuhlobo bobulili obuvamile owesifazane abhekana kaningi kakhulu.
Uma sicabangela kamuva ukuthi ukungabi nobuntombi kuhlangothi lwezempilo, ngokusho kwezokuqapha kwezempilo, amantombazane avame ukuba nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo, ezihambisana nokucindezelwa okungenakuqhamuka kwezintombi.
Ngokuqondene nabesilisa, basolisa kulabo besifazane abangazange balahlekelwe ubuntombi babo esikhathini esizayo, bebasola ngokungathembeki nokungaqiniseki. Phela, kubantu abaningi, ucansi luyingxenye ebalulekile ebuhlotsheni phakathi kobulili obuhlukile. Ngakho-ke, leli qiniso livame ukubonwa njenge-asexuality, ekugcineni eholela eqinisweni lokuthi abesifazane bangashadile futhi bangashadi.
Iziphi izinkinga amantombazane alahlekelwa ubuntombi bawo ekuphileni kwamuva?
Akuyona yonke intombazane eye yanquma ukungabi nobulili isikhathi eside yazi ukuthi ubuntombi bakhe buyisongela yini. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi:
- abantu abaseduze nentombazane baqala ukusola, uma bebona,
ukuthi akanakho uxhumano obuseduze; - le ntombazane isaba ukwamukela okhethiweyo wakhe, ukuthi isengcolile namanje;
- konke ukuvakashela umjozi wezifo zezinzwa kuba olunye uvivinyo lwezinzwa, ngenxa yokungacabangi nokunyanyiswa kodokotela ngabanye;
- ukwehlisa ukuzethemba, ngoba umbono womphakathi uvame ukukhuluma ngamaphutha amantombazane anjalo.
Imiphumela engenhla yezintombi eziseduze ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi uhlu oluphelele lwazo zonke ezingenzeka kumantombazane anjalo. Nokho, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi wonke owesifazane unelungelo lokunquma ngokuzimela lapho eqala ukuphila kwakhe kocansi.