Ukuze kuphile ngezimo, isikhathi esithile, yezilwane zasendle, indoda yayinamakhono amaningana ayisimangalo, okwakubangelwa ukufisa okulodwa - ukuhlala ezimweni ezingahambisani nalokhu.
Isimo sokuzivikela komuntu singenye yezindlela ezivikela kakhulu zomzimba wethu. Ukuze uqaphele incazelo yalo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ingasilonda kanjani ngendlela efanayo.
Emuntwini, lesi simiso sinamafomu amaningi okubonakaliswa kwawo:
- Ukungazi kahle ngokwemvelo - ngendlela yokuziphatha engazi lutho. Zihlose ukugwema ingozi engaqondile noma esheshayo ekuphileni. Balekela esilwaneni esesabekayo kanye nezinye izenzo eziningi, lapho "izinyawo zithwala", kubonakaliswa kwayo. Ukugwema ukugwema izinto noma izimo ezingabangela ubuhlungu, kusho isifiso esifanayo sokuhlala.
- Ukuqaphela ngokwezinto eziphilayo - ngendlela yokucatshangelwa okubalulekile kokusebenza noma ukuphepha. Ngokuvamile, ingozi iyaqaphela futhi umuntu, ngaphansi kokulawula kwengqondo yakhe, uzama ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kwesimo samanje esongela ukuphila kwakhe.
Ukuphulwa kwesimo semvelo sokuzivikela manje kwenzeka ngenxa yethonya ekuthuthukiseni abantu njengobuntu benkinga yezenhlalo nezengqondo. Umuntu uba ngaphansi kwe-alamu engaqondakali futhi ngisho nasengozini esicacile. Isikhali esiyinhloko "esivikelo esivikelayo" sangaphakathi yomzimba wethu umqondo wokwesaba osisiza ukuba siqaphele ukubunzima kwalesi simo futhi sinciphise amandla ethu engokoqobo. Phakathi kwabantu abanesimo sengqondo sokuzivikela, ukuzibulala kungenziwa ngezigaba. Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi abantu abaye bazibeke izandla, baziphathe ngendlela engavumelani nongqondo womuntu. Isenzo esinjalo singenziwa kuphela ngumuntu ocindezelekile futhi olinganiselwe ekubonisweni kwenkululeko.
Indlela yokunciphisa isimo sokuzivikela?
Imfashini yomhlaba wonke ekubhekaneni nokuhwebelana kwembulunga yonke isivele ihlangabezane nalokhu msebenzi, ngoba abantu emphakathini bazizwa bevikelekile ngangokunokwenzeka futhi bafaka phakathi kwabo ukuqala kokuziphatha kokuqala kukhohliwe futhi kuphelile. Kodwa uma usenesithakazelo embuzweni wokuthi ungakhubaza kanjani ukusimama kokuzivikela, khona-ke ngezansi izincomo zakho zenzelwe ukusiza lokhu.
- Imithwalo ehleliwe. Into esemqoka kuleli bhizinisi yisinyathelo esinezinyathelo zokunqoba ukwesaba kwabo. Uma ukuphoqa kwakho nge-jump parachute kuvinjelwa ukwesaba okukhulu kokuphakama, khona-ke kufanele kuqala ukhuphukele endaweni ephakeme yamamitha angu-10 kuya phezulu. Lokhu kungenziwa ngokukhuphukela esiteji sesihlanu esakhiweni esikhulu. Ngemuva kwalokhu ukuphakama sekuqeda ukukhathazeka, ungaqhubeka nokuhlolwa okujulile.
- Ukunciphisa. Ukwesaba nesifiso esiyingqayizivele sokuphunyuka kithi kungabangela ukuthi izinto ezingezona zisongela ukuphila, kodwa
kuxhunywe into ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ebalulekile kithi, isiqephu esithile sokuphila kwethu. Ngakho-ke, ukukhubaza ukuzilondolozwa, udinga ukuphinda ucabangisise incazelo yawo. Mhlawumbe, emva kokuyeka ukubaluleka kakhulu, uzoyeka ukuyesaba. - Isibonelo esihle sobuqili. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukubonisa ubuqotho bomoya wakho kwezinye izimo, udinga ukubheka umuntu owazi ukuthi angenza kanjani ezinjalo. Isibonelo esibukwayo ngezinye izikhathi sisebenza kangcono kunanoma isiphi iseluleko noma isincomo.
Ungasebenzisa la maqhinga ukuze unciphise isenzo sesimo sokuzivikela, ngokuthonya umthombo wokwesaba nokuhlangenwe nakho. Yiqiniso, ukwesaba okwedlulele kokuphila ngokugcwele kusivimbela ekuqaliseni izifiso zethu, kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi umzimba wethu awunawo amakhono angavamile, ngakho-ke akunconywa ukususa ngokuphelele indlela yokuzivikela yangaphakathi.