Kungenzeka yini ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe bangene esontweni - umbono wezefundisi?
Ngesinye isikhathi ezinsukwini zakudala, lapho owesifazane elinde umntwana engavunyelwe ngaphandle kwendlu, ngakho-ke wayengenayo i-jinxed, yena phakathi kwezinye izinto wayengavunyelwe ukuvakashela isonto. Kodwa lezo zikhathi sezidlulile isikhathi eside, futhi abefundisi bathukuthele lapho bezwa imibuzo enjalo - kungenzeka yini ukuya esontweni kwabesifazane abakhulelwe.
Iqiniso liwukuthi ngokweBhayibheli, umzimba unikezwa ngumuntu ngabazali bakhe, futhi umphefumulo unikezwa nguNkulunkulu. Futhi akubonakali ngesikhathi sokuzalwa komuntu omncane ezweni lethu, kodwa unikezwa nguMninimandla onke kakade ekukhulelwe. Uyakuphikisa ngempela ukuthi umama ophethe umntwana esibelethweni sakhe akafiki endaweni yakhe yokuhlala emhlabeni, ukuze amthandazele emithandazweni, acele ukuvikelwa nokusiza.
Isikhathi esithile lapho owesifazane engakwazi ukuwela emngceleni wesonto ngemuva kokuzalwa kokuzalwa kwezinsuku ezingu-40, futhi isikhathi esithile ehlanzekile ngaphambi kweNkosi futhi angaya enkonzweni futhi enze onke amasakramente esonto.
Kungani owesifazane kufanele ahambele isonto ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
Uma umama wesikhathi esizayo ecindezelwe ukungabi nokuqiniseka, uyesaba impilo nempilo yengane yakhe, ezwa ukuthi ukubeletha kuzodlula kanjani, kanti indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthula kwengqondo ukuya kumpristi ukuvuma futhi uthole ukuhlangana.
Futhi, uma impilo ivumela, ungavikela inkonzo ngeSonto nangamaholide amakhulu, nakuba kungabikho bonke abasontweni abakhulelwe abakwazi ukukwenza - iphunga lempepho, ukuxubana kwabantu kanye negumbi elincane kungabangela ukulahlekelwa noma ukulahlekelwa ulwazi, ngakho-ke uye esontweni ngempela nomngane wakho .
Cela izibusiso zokubeletha futhi uthandaze ngaphambi kokuba uphawu lwezempilo lwezingane luqiniseke. Ngenxa yalokhu, kukhona ubuso babangcwele, okwesikhathi eside abafazi abanomntwana bakhishwa ngenhliziyo.
Ngingaba ngunkulunkulu futhi ngishade?
Manje kwacaca ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe bangavakashela isonto, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba bahlanganyele emasakrament of ubhapathizo nemishado yindaba ehlukile. Uma owesifazane enezikhwepha ezanele zokubamba ngesikhathi somkhuba wezingane ezinzima, ngakho-ke akuvunyelwe ukuthatha unkulunkulukazi.
Futhi ukushada umbhangqwana olindele ingane - ibhizinisi elihlonipha kakhulu, nakuba umntwana, okuthiwa, wakhulelwa esonweni, akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu ukufundisa abazali bakhe endleleni eqinisiwe, futhi nokugcina umphefumulo wakhe obuthakathaka.