Izimo ezihlukahlukene ezimbi zenzeka kithi nsuku zonke. Lokho kuphela uma e-United States kunoma yikuphi okusemandleni ukuthi kungenzeka ukuphuma ngokumomotheka, okuyinto izakhamuzi zalelizwe zibona njengesibonakaliso sokuhlonipha, ngakho-ke le ndlela ngokuvamile ayinikezi imiphumela efanayo. Ungaphuma kanjani esimweni esihlazo ngaphandle kokuthola idumela lakho limanzi?
Amantombazane asezimo ezibuhlungu ngokuvamile aziphatha kabi - noma aqale ukuhleka amahlaya, noma ahlaziye, noma aqale ukugxuma futhi alahlekelwe ngamazwi. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo obunzima kunabo bonke besifazane - yini okufanele uyenze esimweni esibucayi? Kuye okwenzeka ngokuqondile, enye yezinketho ezilandelayo ingakusiza kakhulu:
Humusha konke kuhlaya
Ake sithi awuzwa lokho akutshele khona, ubuye waphinda, kodwa awuzange uphinde uzwe. Ulwazi lubalulekile, futhi awukwazi ukubuza futhi okwesithathu. Kulokhu, ungase uhleke: "Ngiyaxolisa, ngisithulu namuhla. Ungayiphinda futhi? " Noma: "Ngangifuna ukwenza ubuso, njengokungathi ngiyiqonde, kodwa unembeza wami awuzange ungivumele. Phinda, sicela! ".
Hambisa ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka
Ake sithi ushiye esibhedlela futhi ukhohlwa ukususa izembozo zesihlangu. Futhi-ke, uhamba emgwaqweni, uqaphela ukuthi wonke umuntu uphenduka kuwe aze aqonde ukuthi yimuphi umbuzo. Kulesi simo, kufanele uzomomotheka, ususe izembozo zezicathulo lapho ukhona futhi ngokushesha ususe amehlo abanye.
Ukuxolisa bese uchaza isimo
Cabanga ngesimo: uya emsebenzini omusha futhi ubona intombazane enesisu esikhulu. Inqubo yokukhulumisana, uyamhalalisela ngobubele obusasa ... kodwa ukhuluphele futhi usumcasule kakhulu. Cela uxolo futhi uchaze ukuthi kunoma yimuphi umuntu ulungele ukubona owesifazane okhulelwe, ngoba wena ngokwakho ufuna kakhulu izingane.
Isimo esibucayi empilweni, ngobulili futhi ngokujwayelekile kunoma yini ebalulekile ukufunda ukunqoba ubuso obuzolile, noma ngabe ungakhululekile. Phatha lokhu ngamahlaya - okungeke kwenzeke kuye!