Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo umuntu ubelokhu ezama ukufunda ngaye kanye nabantu abazungezile. Ngokufika komuntu, sifunde ukuqaphela izici ezingalungile nezihle zomlingiswa womuntu. Akunabantu abalungile, noma kunjalo, abanye abantu bangase babe nezici zobuntu ezinhle, kanti abanye bangase bangabi nazo.
Izici zobunjwa obuhle, uhlu lwaso olungenakulinganiswa, lungabalwa futhi luphathwe ngezindlela ezahlukene. Lokhu kuyimfanelo emihle yomlingiswa, nezimpawu zemfundo, ukubekezela nokubekezela, ikhono lokuhlala emphakathini nokuzijabulisa, nabanye abaningi. Imikhuba emihle yezinhlamvu ngokuqondile yizo zimfanelo ezivumela umuntu ukuba angahlali nje emphakathini, kodwa futhi ukuhambisana nemithetho yakhe, futhi nokukhuthaza ngokuqhubekayo wonke amalungu akhe.
Kuphi ukuziphatha okuhle okuvela kuwo?
Izici ezinhle nezenzo esizenzayo, okokuqala, kuxhomeke esimweni sethu sobubele nesimo esiyingqayizivele. Into elandelayo ethonya ukubunjwa kwalezi zimfanelo nezimfanelo kithi ukukhuliswa nokuzungezile. Abantu abadala banikeza ingane yabo isibonelo esihlala njalo sokuziphatha kwabo nezenzo zabo, bakha ukubuka kwabo emhlabeni kanye namagugu empilweni. Okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yabazali bakho nakanjani uzokwaziswa ngawe. Kungaba mnandi futhi kujabulise, noma, ngokuphambene, ukungathí sina nokuzibophezela, okuyizimo zombili izici ezinhle zobuntu bomuntu.
Isimo sengqondo sokuphila nokuzikhethela kubalulekile. Lokhu kusenza sibe yiqiniso, okungukuthi, ikhwalithi yokuphila kwethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sinelisekile ngakho, futhi ukwakheka nokuthuthukiswa kwezici ezinhle zesimo kuncike. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingqondo kazwelonke yezwe, amasiko, inethonya elithile ekufikeni kwalokhu noma leyo mfanelo emihle yomlingiswa. Ngokwesibonelo, abantu baseSlavic, isici esamukelekayo ngokuphelele esiye sathuthukisa ngokomlando ukupha nokuzidela, okungaqondile nakwamanye amazwe.
Uhlu lwezici ezinhle
Izici ezibonakalayo zobunjwa bakho zingalinganiselwa emashumi, uma kungenamakhulu wamagama. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuqoqa zonke lezi zimfanelo kumuntu oyedwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye zazo azihambisani ngokuphelele. Izinga elihle lomuntu nendoda lingase lihluke ngokuhlukile. Uma kungokwemvelo ukuba indoda ibe namandla futhi ikhwephe ngamandla, ingcono kakhulu ukuba owesifazane abe nezici zobuntu nomhlatshelo.
Emadodeni, isibindi, ukwethenjelwa, umthwalo wemfanelo, ukuhlakanipha, ukuzimisela kuqhubeka. Umuntu othembekile uhlale egcina izwi lakhe, ungamethemba kuye nganoma yisiphi isimo, ngaso sonke isikhathi usiza ekuxazululeni izinkinga. Kodwa owesifazane obaluleke nakakhulu yizici ezinhle ezinjalo zomlingiswa njengobubele, isisa, ububele, ukubekezela, ukuthuthuka, ukunakekela. Owesifazane wangempela, okokuqala,
Noma yimuphi umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyindoda noma owesifazane, intombazane noma indoda endala ehlakaniphile, kukhona uhlu lwezimfanelo ezinhle zomuntu okumelwe zithinte kulowo nalowo kithi. Kuvulekile nokuthembeka, ukungabi nabugovu nokuphana, ukuphana nokuzimisela ukusiza, ukwethembeka nokuzinikela, isihe nokubonga. Okubalulekile futhi kuyoba nomthwalo wemfanelo nokuthembeka, ukungathí sina nokuzinikezela, isibindi nesibindi, ukubekezela nokubekezela, nabanye abaningi.
Ngamunye wethu angathuthukisa lezi zimfanelo ezibalulekile. Futhi umuntu onolwazi lwawo njalo uyisimenywa esamukelekile, abantu bakhangwa kuye, ujabule futhi ujabule empilweni.