Ubhapathizo luyisakramente enkulu, enye yezinqubo ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwawo wonke umKristu. Yiqiniso, ukuze kudlule ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okungadingekile nezinkumanga ezingathandeki, kufanele uzilungiselele kusengaphambili.
Kulesi sihloko sizokhuluma mayelana nokulungiselela ukubhapathizwa, ikakhulukazi ngokukhetha isethi sokubhapathizwa kwengane, sizobe sitshela lokho okufakiwe kwisethi yobhapathizo, yiziphi izigaba ezahlukene zokubhapathizwa kwentombazane kanye nomfana.
Ungakhetha kanjani ama-crystals yamaKristu?
Lapho ukhetha isethi yobhapathizo, okokuqala kufanele uqaphele iminyaka yomuntu obhapathiziwe. Ezinganeni zithengiswa amasethi akhethekile okwenzelwe ukubhapathizwa, izingane ezindala zingathatha izinto ezidingekile ngokuzihlanganisa, ngokuzihlanganisa.
Ezindaweni eziningi, kunomkhuba wokugcina ubhapathizo obekwe kuwo wonke umuntu, kanti kwezinye izinto zidlulise izingubo zokubhapathizwa njengefa (isibonelo, lokhu kwenziwa emindenini yamabukhosi kanye nasebukhosini). Zonke izinto ezisetjenzisweni zokubhapathizwa kufanele zenziwe ngezinto eziphephile nezinga eliphezulu, ungalimazi isikhumba somntwana futhi ungabangeli ukucasuka noma ukusabela kwemizwa. Ukwenza ukukhetha phakathi kwezinhlobonhlobo zezinethi, khetha izinto ezivela ezintweni zemvelo zomkhiqizi owaziwayo. Ungalawula ngisho nokudala isethi ngayinye yokubhapathizwa - lokhu, funda amakheli ama-workshops edolobheni lakho noma uthintane futhi uxoxe nabanikazi abahlinzeka ngezinsizakalo zalolu hlobo.
Naphezu kokuthi abakhiqizi abaningi benza imigqa ehlukene yokubhapathizwa kwezingane kubafana namantombazane, ngokuvamile, bavame ukuhluka kuphela emgqeni wendwangu enkulu noma eqedile - imibala e-pink ikhethwe amantombazane, futhi abafana bavame ukuthengwa amasethingi e-blue shades. Uma ufisa, ungathenga i-tuxedo yangempela emhlophe kumfana, nangenxa yentombazane - ingubo enhle kakhulu. Nakuba izinkambo ezinjalo azifaneleki kahle esontweni - ukubhapathiza umntwana kungcono kwihembe elimhlophe elimhlophe elenziwe nge-flax noma ikotini. Izambatho eziluhlaza ongashiya ukugubha umndeni - zizobe zilungile lapho.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uqaphele ukulula kwezingubo, amaphini kanye ne-bonnet - konke lokhu kufanele kube okukhululekile, ungagcini futhi ususe kalula. Ubuningi bezinkinobho, izibopho zokugqoka noma ama-band e-stretched tight akuyona into engathandeki, ngoba kuzodingeka ukhathaze futhi ugqoke ingane esontweni ngokushesha.
Yini ehlanganisiwe kwisethi yobhapathizo?
Isici esibaluleke kunazo zonke esimisweni sokubhapathizwa, yiqiniso, isiphambano. Ngokujwayelekile ukukhetha kwakhe nokuthenga kwenziwa ngu-godfather. Sekuyisiko ukuthenga iziphambano zegolide ngokunciphisa kahle ingane, nakuba-ke, noma yikuphi umKristu owela nge-christening efanelekile. Uma ungakwazi ukuzikhethela wena, hamba esitolo sesonto bese ucela iseluleko, nakanjani uzoboniswa izinketho eziningana bese ukhetha okufaneleke kakhulu kuwe.
Isici sesibili sesethi ishembe le-christening. Kumele kube mhlophe, okuwuphawu lokuhlanzeka nokungabi namacala. Ukuqeda kuyinto eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka embala. I-Shirt - lena yizingubo zokuqala ingane ezizozigqoka emva kokugeza efonini, ngakho kufanele ikhonjiswe kusuka kwikhwalithi yekhwalithi, ephephile futhi elula.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, isitifiketi sokubhapathizwa sineziphuzo, i-kosyachka (noma i-cap) kanye ne-diaper noma ithawula (kryzhma).
Ukuqedwa kwesihloko, ama-shirts namaphiniki kufanele kube nenhle, imikhosi, inhle kakhulu - i-lace encane, i-satin ne-lace, i-ribbons enhle, i-embroidery ehlakaniphile. Kodwa gwema ngokweqile - ukunethezeka okucwebezelayo noma ubuningi bezinto zokugqoka akufanelekile, ngoba ubhapathizo luyiholide lokuhlanzeka komoya nomzimba, usuku lapho ingane ikhululiwe kuzo zonke izono.
Lapho ukhetha isethi yokubhapathizwa, qaphela inkathi lapho kubanjwe khona umkhosi. Ehlobo, ithawula elincanyana lifanelekile, kanti ebusika ungadinga ingubo efudumele engaphezulu ukuze ugoqe umcibisholo ekupheleni kokubhapathizwa. Ekamelweni lapho kwenziwa khona umkhuba, ngokuvamile kuvutha kakhulu, futhi ukhathazeka ngokuthi ingane ingabamba umkhuhlane, akufanelekile.