Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenzisa ukwelashwa kwama-fairytale ezinganeni zasenkulisa. Phela, kufanelekile kuzo zonke izingane futhi zingasiza ukunqoba izinkinga ezihlukahlukene empilweni yengane.
Iyini inzuzo yokusebenzisa ukwelashwa kwezingane zamantombazane?
Imithi yokwelapha inganekwane ihle kakhulu kubo bonke abasencane nabasenkulisa. Kuncike emisebenzini, kusetshenziswe izinhlobo ezahlukene zokwelapha inganekwane. Ukusebenza kwalo kunjengokulandelayo:
- kusiza ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kwenkinga yenkinga (ubunzima ebuhlotsheni nabazali, ontanga, njll);
- yandisa ulwazi lomntwana ngaye kanye nezwe eliseduze naye;
- kuthuthukisa umhlaba wangaphakathi wengane ngezindinganiso ezingokomoya nezokuziphatha ;
- ilungisa ukuziphatha nokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo;
- kushukumisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nomzimba.
Okuyinhloko yokwelashwa kwezinganekwane ukuthi ingane noma umuntu omdala udala inganekwane ebonisa ubunzima obuvele ngaphambi kwengane, bese uthola izindlela zokuzixazulula.
Izinhlobo zezinganekwane ezinganeni zasenkulisa, ezisetshenziselwa ukwelapha inganekwane
- indaba yabantu noma yobuciko - inikeza imfundo engokomoya nokuziphatha, iveza imizwa yokusizana, ukuzwelana, umsebenzi, isihawu, njll;
- ukufundisa noma ukuthuthukisa inganekwane - kwandisa ulwazi lomntwana ngesikhala esiseduze, imithetho yokuziphatha ezimweni ezahlukene zokuphila;
- indaba yokuxilonga - kusiza ukunquma isimo somntwana futhi yembula isimo sakhe sengqondo emhlabeni;
- indaba yengqondo - kanye neqhawe ingane ifunda ukunqoba ukwesaba kwakhe, ukwehluleka nokuzuza ukuzethemba emakhono akhe.
Kunezibonelo eziningi ezenziwe ngomumo wezinganekwane ezinganeni zasenkulisa ezisetshenziselwa ukwelapha inganekwane. Kodwa ukusebenza okukhulu kakhulu kuzonikeza inganekwane, eyakhiwa abazali.
I-Scheme yezindaba zokwelapha
- ukukhethwa kweqhawe (elifana nengane);
- incazelo yempilo yes hero;
- ukubeka iqhawe esimweni senkinga (ngokufanisa nenkinga yengane);
- i-hero ifuna futhi ithole indlela yokuphuma.
Ngezindabakwane, ungaqhubeka ukusebenza emva kokufunda. Kungaba nezindlela eziningi zomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe ohlanganyelweyo ekwelapheni kwezinganekwane.
Okungafani komsebenzi nezinganekwane
- ukudweba, ukumpumputhe noma ukuveza inganekwane ngendlela yesicelo;
ukwenza ngezandla zomuntu idoli ngezinhloso zezinganekwane; - yenza ukuhlelwa kwetheksthi ngendlela yemidlalo yaseshashalazini.
Amabhandlela enhlangano ye-therapy yezingane inganekwane
- Ukufunda okulula kwezinganekwane - hhayi okwelapha okwamanje, kufanele ushaye inganekwane, udwephe iziphetho, njll;
- ungachazi izimiso zendatshana;
- amahlaya amaningi;
- okuqukethwe kwendaba kumele kucaciswe kwengane.
Imithi yokwelapha inganekwane iyindlela emangalisayo, ethakazelisayo ezosiza ekuxazululeni izinkinga zezingane zakho. Inhlanhla endleleni enhle kakhulu!