Abazali abanothando, ngaphezu kwakho konke, banakekela impilo yezingane zabo, futhi noma yisiphi isibonakaliso saleso sifo kubangelwa ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka ngokushesha. Izifo ezivame kakhulu, njengomthetho, ziyabanda. Futhi ngokushesha nje lapho abazali beqaphela ukuthi ingane yabo iyancenga, ngokushesha baqala ukuhlaselwa ngezidakamizwa zokuzivikela, ukuze bagweme ukuthuthukiswa kwesifo. Ngifuna ukusho masinyane ukuthi lokhu akufanele kwenziwe, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi ukuthungula kungumzimba ovikelayo, ozama ukuqeda izinhlayiya zangaphandle ezicasulayo, isibonelo, uthuli.
Izimbangela zokukhipha
Uma uqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ivame ukunciphisa, futhi lokhu akupheli nganoma iyiphi indlela, khona-ke kufaneleke ukuqala ukukhathazeka. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, udinga ukugcina ingane, uqonde ukuthi kungani ingane ihlambalaza, mhlawumbe lokhu kungumphumela wokungezwani komzimba. Geza i-crumb bese uhlanze umuthi wayo. Uma ukunyundela kungavumi futhi ezinye izimpawu zanezelwa kuyo: ukukhwehlela, ikhala eligijima, umkhuhlane, bese ushayele udokotela ngokushesha. Ukwenza imithi yokwelapha, ungamlimaza ingane yakho kuphela.
Ngokuvamile, abazali bayaqaphela ukuthi ingane yabo igxuma ekuseni, ivuke kuphela, futhi ayikho enye izimpawu zomkhuhlane. Mhlawumbe, lokhu kuyindlela yokwelashwa kwengane, isibonelo, ngomcamelo wezinsizi. Kufanelekile ukuyibuyisela ngetheni futhi ubheke ukusabela kwemvuthuluka. Ungazama futhi ukushintsha i-powder yokuhlanza, okuvame ukugeza ukulala komntwana. Ukubuza ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane ihlambalaza, kufanele futhi uqaphele ukuhlanzeka kwekamelo, lapho umntwana ehlala khona. Igumbi elithulayo elinomoya omile ngeke nje liqhubezele ukuthungula, kodwa futhi linomthelela ekuthuthukiseni imithi. Ukuhlanza ngamanzi nsuku zonke, ukushaywa umoya, ukuxoshwa ekusetshenzisweni kwengane yazo zonke izinto ezingabangela ukubola, kuzosiza ukuqeda ukuchotshoza okuvela emanzini amnandi nsuku zonke.