Uma usana luvela endlini, ngisho nokungabaza kakhulu kukho konke izinkolelo-ze, umama uzama ukwenza konke ukuvikela ingane "iso elibi". Futhi uma ungafiki ukuhlala ekhaya izinsuku ezingamashumi amane zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, khona-ke iphini elivela kweso elibi, i-talisman noma isithonjana esincane singatholakala ku-stroller ngamunye. Kulungile, ukuthola umkhwekazi noma umkhwekazi, ongeke anikeze izingane inqolobane yamanzi angcwele, akunakwenzeka ukusebenza. Yingakho umama adinga ukwazi ukususa iso elibi emntwaneni ngaphandle kokusebenzisa okhulukazi, abahlengikazi, abantu base-esoteric.
I-Stranger amandla angasebenzi
Amandla okuzivikela osana angakakhiwa ngokwanele, ngakho-ke izibonakaliso zethonya lamandla amabi ziboniswa cishe ngaso leso sikhathi. Akumangazi ukuthi ukuhamba okuvamile kuphelela nge-whims, ukushiywa amabele, ukuphazamiseka kokulala. Futhi konke ngenxa yokuthi umakhelwane othile emphemeni wayebheke emotweni futhi wathi okuthile okuthinta ekhelini lomntwana. Izimpawu eziyinhloko zeso lomntwana zingenziwa kalula. Lokhu kukhalela, ukukhala kungukuthi i-hysterical, ukukhala ngaphandle kokuyeka, ukukhala ngehora. Labo abangakwazi ukucacisa iso elibi lomntwana bayelulekwa ukuba badlulise ulimi phezu kwekhasi lakhe. Uma ukunambitheka kunamanzi, khona-ke "iso elibi" linendawo yokuhlala.
Izindlela zokuvikelwa esweni elibi
Naphezu kwendlela umama aphatha ngayo ukuba khona kweso elibi lomntwana, kufanelekile ukulivikela. Okokuqala, ungabonisi ingane yakho ngokungadingekile kuwo wonke umuntu ofuna. Uma wenqabe ukulahla isicelo ngokungathandeki, zama ukugwema izindawo ezigcwele isikhathi sokuqala. Futhi inkulumo ethi "umntwana akabhapathiziwe" kufanele iqondwe kahle ngokuzikhethela. Okwesibili, zama ukudumisa ingane, ungavumeli abanye bakwenze. Akudingekile ukuba uthi "fu, yini engalungile!" Noma "i-pah kuwe!", Njengabakhulukazi bathanda ukwenza. Okwesithathu, ungabonisi abantu abangabazi kumntwana olele. Kuleli qophelo, amandla akhe asezingeni elimnyama futhi lisengozini kakhulu.
Uma ufunde amathiphu ukuthi ungavikela kanjani ingane ebuhleni obubi, kuzothatha izindlela eziphumelelayo zokukuqeda. Okufinyeleleka kunawo wonke amanzi angcwele. Akudingekile ukuthi uhambe ngesinyathelo ukwazi ukugeza ingane yeso elibi, ngoba ngokwayo amanzi ngumthombo omkhulu wamandla. Uma izimpawu zeso lomntwana sezikhona kakade, zama ukufunda umthandazo.
Umthandazo ovela esweni elibi
"Egameni likaYise neleNdodana nelomoya oNgcwele." Ngingumqondo ophezulu wokuzungeze ingane kaNkulunkulu (igama). Ukuze kungabikho muntu ongasondela: akukho ukugula, akukho ukukhathazeka, umakhelwane omubi, akekho umthengisi, isivakashi esingamenywanga, ukushaywa indiva, ukugwaza, ukugaya, ukugubha, ukuthuthumela, ukugubha, ukubhuka, ama-oohs, ukububula kanye no-ahi, nakho konke ukwesaba okungenalutho. Msebenzele yena, i-ax, mphendulele, yambani, niyithuthumele, ijuba. Veretentse, ukuba ahambe, futhi yena, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), makabe ehlakaniphile, ezwakalayo futhi enhle. Inkazimulo kuYise nakuNdodana noMoya oNgcwele. Amen. "
Lo mthandazo ovela esweni elibi lomntwana uhlehliswa ngamanzi. Kufanele asule ingane.