Ngokuvamile amahloni ethu nokugxeka kungaba yisithiyo ekuqaliseni izinhlelo zokuphila. Futhi kubonakala kubaningi ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuwaqeda, kodwa lokhu akulungile ngokuphelele. Uma ungazi ukuthi ungaba ngcono kanjani, kufanele uqaphele iseluleko sabanokusebenza kwengqondo.
Ungaba kanjani ngokwengeziwe futhi uqiniseke ngokwengeziwe kuwe?
Ochwepheshe bathi impendulo yombuzo wendlela yokuba amanga aqinile futhi ahlale enesizotha ngokuqondile. Udinga nje ukukholelwa kuwe. Kodwa lokhu kungumsebenzi ongenakwenzeka kwabaningi. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka: thatha isikhathi sakho, wenze kancane kancane:
- ukuyeka ukuqondiswa umbono womunye;
- ukhohlwe ukuthi labo abazungezile bayakwazisa;
- khipha eceleni ukungabaza ngamandla akho.
Ukuze ube namandla, kufanele uvume ukwesaba kwakho futhi uwabheke ngqo ebusweni. Ngaphandle kokuwahlula, awukwazi ukushintsha. Zama indlela yokugqoka: ukwesaba abantu abangabazi - qalisa ukwenza abantu abajwayele ukuhlanganyela, ukwesaba umphathi - qala ukuya kuye nsuku zonke ngeziphakamiso zomsebenzi, njll.
Zivumelanise neqiniso lokuthi akuwona konke okuyokwenza ngendlela oyifunayo. Ukwehluleka, ukwenza amaphutha, ukungena enkingeni kuvamile, akukwenzeka kuphela kulabo abangenzi lutho. Ungazigxeki, ungahawukeli, uphonsa futhi uqhubeke phambili. Zithokozise kaningi, ungesabi ukuzama into entsha, engavamile, uzame ukuphuma endaweni yokududuza.
Ungaba nesibindi kanjani nomfana?
Amantombazane amaningi amahloni anesithakazelo kakhulu ekuthiwa abe ngcono futhi abe nenjabulo nakakhulu nabantu. Okokuqala, empeleni, ushintshe ngaphandle - abantu abasha abanjengebesifazane abakhazimulayo. Kubalulekile ukuthola isitayela sakho. Okwesibili, ngena engxoxweni kuqala. Kufanele kube mnandi nawe, ngakho wandise ama-horizons akho, kodwa zama ukungakhathazeki. Okwesithathu, ukwazi ukuphendula ngokufanele ukuhlaselwa: ihlaya, ukuhleka ekuphenduleni amahlaya angenacala, ngokuqinile, kodwa ngokubeka ngokukhululekile ham.