Ukuhleka okumnandi yilokho amantombazane amaningi adinga ngokulingana nomuntu omuhle noma ikhono "lokwakha amehlo" ngokobulili. Futhi konke ngoba ukuhleka kwenhle intombazane kuyindlela yokuthakazelisa umuntu osebenza ngisho nangenkathazo ngaphandle kokubukeka komzimba. Kodwa inkinga ukuthi akubona bonke abesifazane abakwaziyo ukuhleka kahle. Omunye uhleka kakhulu, omunye umuntu omncane kakhulu, othile wenza imisindo ehlekisayo ngenkathi ehleka noma ehamba yonke indawo. Yiqiniso, ukuhleka okuqotho kuhlukile, kodwa amantombazane kudingeka asebenze ngokwabo, ukuze ukuhleka kwabo kungabi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi kuyamnandi. Akuyona into eyenza ukuhleka kwentombazane kaningi kuqhathaniswa nokukhononda komfula noma ukukhala kwezigcawu zesiliva. Ngakho kufanele kube. Ake sihlolisise ukuthi ungafunda kanjani ukuhleka kahle, ngenkathi uhlala uqotho ekuvezeni imizwa yakho.
Indlela yokwenza ukuhleka kuhle?
Mhlawumbe, into enzima kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi kuhle kangakanani ukuhleka kwakho. Emva kwakho konke, ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukulalela ukuhleka kwakho noma unquma ukuhleka phambi kwesibuko, ubuqotho bulahleka ngokushesha, futhi ukuhlekwa okuhlekisayo akusizi ngalutho. Ngakho-ke, ungacela iseluleko kumngane wakho omkhulu, ugcizelela ukuthi impendulo yakhe kufanele ibe yinto eqotho. Noma ngesikhatsi umhlangano nabangani efulethini lakhe ukufihla endaweni ethile ikhamera yevidiyo bese uqopha lo mhlangano, bese ubheka ukurekhoda nokuhlola ukuhleka kwakho.
Uma ufinyelele esiphethweni sokuthi ukuhleka kwakho kusadingeka kulungiswe, nanka amanye amathiphu okuzokusiza ufunde ukuhleka kahle:
- Thola iphuzu lakho lokuhleka okuhle. Ungagxila kumdlali othile oyithandayo. Isaziso, ekuhlekeni kwe-movie kuhlale kuqotho, ngakho-ke ukuqeqeshwa okudingekayo kuphela.
- Hlanganisa ukuhleka eduze kwesibuko. Mhlawumbe, okokuqala okokuhleka kuyokwenzeka ukuthi kungabonakali futhi kungabonakali, kodwa-ke uzobe usujwayele, ngoba nguwe kuphela ongaqonda ukuthi ubukeka kanjani, uma uhleke futhi uhleka kangcono.
- Ungavuli umlomo wakho ngokuhle ngenkathi uhleka, ubonisa wonke amazinyo akho kwabanye.
Kungcono ukumomotheka, bese uhleka ngomusa - lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukuhleka kwesifazane. Futhi ngisho noma ukuhleka kwakho kuvele kuvele, awukwazi ukukhala njengehhashi. - Lawula imisindo ehlukahlukene abaningi abaqhuma ngayo ngesikhathi sokuhleka: ukugabisa, ukugcoba, nabanye. Abanikeli uthando lwakho lokuhleka.
- Ungabeki izandla zakho, ungashayi izandla zakho emadolweni akho, ungaphinde ujike ikhanda lakho - lezi zonke izinto ezithinta abantu abesilisa abangezi nhlobo.
- Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuhleka kufanele kube okuqotho, kwangempela - lokhu kuyisici esibaluleke kunazo zonke esikunika ubuhle.
