Iqembu lezinkukhu liwukubonakala kokugcina komakoti njengentombazane ekhululekile, futhi izinhlobonhlobo zemincintiswano nezokuzijabulisa ziyingxenye ebalulekile. Isiko sokuhlela ukuhlolwa komakoti sibuyela emuva isikhathi eside, ngakho-ke kwakuthunyiwe ukuhlola ukuqina kwezinhloso zakhe, amandla othando ngomyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo nokulungela kwakhe impilo yomndeni. Manje ukubambelela emincintiswaneni yeshado lomakoti kumnandi kakhulu, okwenza lolo suku lujabulise futhi alukhumbule. Sizokukhuluma ngezinye zazo.
Endleleni eya ephathini le-bachelorette
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unqume kanjani ukuchitha iqembu le-bachelorette, imincintiswano ingaqala ngisho nasendleleni eya eqenjini noma e-cafe. Lokhu kuzosiza ukudlulisa isikhathi, thinta ngendlela efanele futhi ujabule. Umakoti kufanele athole abantu emgwaqeni abazofanekisela ezinye izenzakalo ezivela ekuphileni kwakhe kwangaphambilini. Isibonelo, uma esake efunde eyunivesithi, thola intombazane-umfundi. Futhi isibonakaliso esijabulisayo sizohlangana nomfana ogama lakhe lifana nelomyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, intombazane kufanele icabange ngalokho okulindelekile ekuphileni kwakhe esikhathini esizayo. Uma ufuna ukuba nezingane ngokushesha - umhlangano womama osemncane nosana uzobe usesikhathini nje, futhi uma kuqala kubalulekile ukuthola umsebenzi, khona-ke abesifazane abanobuhle obufanayo noma bomsebenzi womfazi wesikhathi esizayo. Amantombazane-abangani emncintiswaneni onjalo kufanele adlulise izipho ezincane kulabo abahlangana nomakoti. Ngokuvamile abantu basabela kahle kakhulu ekuzijabuliseni okunjalo nokufisa injabulo nomndeni oqinile.
Uma umyeni wakho ...
Imincintiswano yethebula yeqembu le-bachelorette ingahle lihle kakhulu. Lokhu ukuzijabulisa ngokuvamile kubangele ukucindezeleka ngenxa yokungazibikezeli kokuphendula komakoti. Ngaphambi kokuqala kweqembu lezinkukhu, izintombi zidinga ukulungiselela izingcezu ezimbalwa zephepha, okuzobhalwa yilowo nalowo, okuyinto emgqeni wesikhathi esizayo ebheka njengento engathandekayo, isibonelo: "Ukukhathazeka", "Umhawu," futhi "Ukuthatha ekhaleni." Khona-ke lawa maqabunga aphonswa esikhwameni noma ekhanda futhi umakoti uyaziphendulela futhi athi: "Uma emva komshado kuvela ukuthi umyeni wami wesikhathi esizayo uyabuhlungu, khona-ke ngiya ..." bese ekhombisa ukuthi uzokwenzani nalo. Njengobe wena ngokwakho uyaqonda, okunye okunamandla okukhethwa kukho ngabangani, okungalindelekile kuyoba yizimpendulo zowesifazane ozayo.
Uyomqaphela kusukela enkulungwaneni
Thola ukuthi umngane wakho uyazi kanjani umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, thatha isithombe senye ingxenye yomzimba wakhe kusengaphambili: isibonelo, umunwe emlenzeni noma indlebe. Lungisa isithombe esibonisa indawo efanayo namanye amadoda, bese ubuza umakoti ukuqagela ukuthi uthanda kuphi?
Ingxenye yesibili yomncintiswano yembula indlela intombazane eyazi ngayo imikhuba nemizwa yakhe okhethiwe. Ngaphambi kwesikhathi umyeni ubuzwa imibuzo yemvelo ehluke kakhulu: ukuthi uthanda ukuthini, ngaluphi uhlangothi alala ngalo, lokho akuthandayo futhi angathandi kumfazi wakhe ozayo. Khona-ke imibuzo efanayo ibuzwa umakoti ngesivinini, futhi izimpendulo zakhe zihlolwe ngokumelene nezimpendulo ezinikezwa umkhwenyana. Uma kukhona okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi, ngcono ukuthi uyazi umphefumulo wakhe womshado.
Ubuhlobo obunamandla
Amantombazane aqopha izindaba ezimnandi kakhulu ezihlobene nomakoti futhi amvumele afunde, futhi kufanele akhumbule imininingwane ezithakazelisayo futhi azame ukuqagela ukuthi ubani obhale ngalokhu noma leso simo ekuphileni kwabo.
Inkonyane ngomlobokazi
Amantombazane aqagela amagama ahlobene nokuphila komndeni okujabulisayo, isibonelo: " ukwethemba ", "usizo enkingeni," "ukwethembeka," futhi umakoti kumele aqagele ngokubuza abangane bakhe imibuzo ukuthi bangaphendula kuphela "yebo" noma "cha." Lawa magama futhi azoba izifiso zamabhangqwana asanda kushada futhi, njengoba beqagela, angangena ekhadini leposi, ekupheleni kokuhlwa intombazane inikezwa umfazi wesikhathi esizayo kanye nezipho ezincane zokujabula.