Abesifazane abaningi, emva kokuthola imiphumela emihle yokuhlolwa, banenkinga ngokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi abe nobulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Futhi, uma ungakwazi, khona-ke kuyoba kanjani ephephile kwengane.
Odokotela bakholelwa ukuthi ukulala ngokobulili kungenziwa kuze kube sekuzalweni, uma kungekho usongo lokukhulelwa kwesisu noma ezinye izifo. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubulili bunomphumela omuhle esimweni sangokwengqondo nesokwengqondo kowesifazane, ngakho akufanele ushiye. Okuphephile kakhulu futhi kumnandi kubhekwa ngokocansi ngomlomo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa , uma isenzo socansi siphambene.
Ubulili nokukhulelwa akufanelekile ukuyeka noma ukunciphisa - ngakho owesifazane uzizwa enempilo, enhle futhi efiselekayo, ezuza kuphela lesi simo.
Ukukhulelwa nokuphila obuseduze
Amama omuso akhathazekile ngokuthi kungenzeka yini ukusebenzisa ubulili ngomlomo kubantu besifazane abakhulelwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngeke kulimaze ingane. Ukulala ngocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akuyona nje eyingozi, kodwa futhi kuyasiza, ngoba ngesikhathi se-orgasm imizwa emihle owesifazane ayithola iyadluliselwa emntwaneni, futhi izibeletho zesibindi ezibangelwayo azikwazi ukufaka isandla ekubelethweni ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Ubulili emavikini angu-37 wokukhulelwa
Ngokuvamile, omama abasafuni ukulala ocansini emva kokukhulelwa ngemva kwamasonto angu 37, bephikisana lokhu ngokwesaba ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ukuphazamiseka kwesisu esikhulu, ukwesaba ukuletha isifo. Imithi yanamuhla ayigcini nje ukuvimbela ucansi emasontweni okugcina okukhulelwa, kodwa iphakamisa ngokuqinile, uma nje bobabili abalingani bephilile, ubuqotho besibindi sesisu abuphuli, futhi owesifazane akazwa ubuhlungu. Uma ngabe okungenani isimo esisodwa asihlangabezane, kungenzeka ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe bahlanganyele ocansini ngomlomo, lapho owesifazane angayijabuli kuphela, kodwa futhi abanye bazuze ngokuqondile ukukhulelwa, ngokusho kososayensi.
Ukulala ngocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kungenzeka
Ososayensi baseMelika batusa ucansi ngomlomo kubantu besifazane abakhulelwe ukuze basuse imiphumela ye-toxicosis futhi banciphise ukutholakala kwe- preeclampsia - isimo sowesifazane okhulelwe, lapho kukhona amaprotheni emcimbini kanye nengcindezi yegazi. Futhi lokhu akuyona ihlaya, ukusetshenziswa komuntu wesilisa wesilisa kunomphumela omuhle kuwo wonke umzimba wakhe futhi ikakhulukazi, kusiza ukuqeda ukugula ekuseni.
Ekuphetheni, sifingqa ukuthi ubulili bomlomo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kungenziwa futhi kufanele kwenziwe ukuze owesifazane azizwe engathandeki futhi "puzatenkoy", kodwa wayazi ukuthi uyathandwa futhi wayefisa.