Ngezinye izikhathi amaphupho anamanga ayenziwa, okungekho lula ukuwaqonda; isibonelo, kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi yikuphi ukhukhamba aluhlaza okwephuza.
Leli phupho lihunyushwe kanjani?
Ezincwadini zephupho, lesi siqephu siphathwa kakhulu, nakuba, njengamthetho, ziguqukela eyodwa - kuyiphupho elihle:
- kukholelwa ukuthi iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukuthi impilo izoba ngendlela ephelele, futhi uma ikhukhamba iphupha isiguli, ngokushesha uzobuya;
- kungabonakala njengesibonakaliso esihle, ukwazisa ngezenzakalo ezinhle ezizokwenzeka ngesikhathi esifushane;
- Bakholelwa nokuthi ukubona ukhukhamba ngephupho kuphumelela ibhizinisi elibalulekile eliqalisiwe noma esiphethweni esiyimpumelelo.
Abakhiqizi abaningi bezincwadi zephupho, bachaza ukuthi amakhokhamba aluhlaza aphikisana nomfazi, athi iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukunganeliseki ngokobulili kanye nesifiso esiyimfihlo sokusondelana nomuntu.
Kukhona nezinye izihumusho: abalobi bezinye izincwadi zephupho bakholelwa ukuthi amakhukhamba abonwe ephusheni, afanekisela ukuhamba nezinkinga ezihambisana nokwamukela izivakashi ezizovela maduzane emnyango. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi baxwayisa ngezinto ezingenalutho zokuxazulula izinkinga.
Ikhukhamba elisha elisha lihlobene ngani nentombazane?
Abaningi abahumushi bamaphupho bavumelana ukuthi uphupha iphupho elinjalo, kwezinye izimo, ukwanda kwenani labamthandayo, kwabanye - owaziwayo noma umshado ophumelelayo.
Abamele ukulala kwesigamu esinamandla bathembisa inhlanhla ebhizinisini, impilo enhle, ukuphothulwa ngempumelelo kwamacala.
Uma uvuna ukhukhamba ...
Kwenzeka ukuthi hhayi kuphela ukhukhamba, njengoba kunjalo, ephupha, kodwa ukuvuna isivuno sabo. Kulesi simo, phawula eziningi zezinto eziphazamisayo ezithinta incazelo, amaphupho okuqoqa ukhukhamba aluhlaza. Kubalulekile ukuthi ikhukhamba iphupha:
- abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ukuqoqa amakhukhamba amasha, kodwa amancane - ezinkingeni ezincane, kodwa ezingathandeki;
- Abantu abaneminyaka yobudala bokuvuna amakhukhamba amasha bathembisa ukuguga okude nokuthulile nempilo enhle;
- ukhukhamba okukhanyayo okwakungavamile okwenziwe ngezakhiwo izenzakalo ezisheshayo ezomangala futhi zilethe injabulo.
Abaningi banesithakazelo kulokhu okukhuphuka ngamakhukhamba amasha, uma kufanele aqoqwe owesifazane. Ukuqoqa ukhukhamba amasha ephusheni kuwuphawu lwezehlakalo ezinhle, kodwa kuphela uma imibhede engadini ingenziwanga ngesihlabathi. Kulesi simo, konke okuhle okukhona empilweni okwamanje, kudinga isinyathelo ukuyiqinisa nokuyigcina. Futhi uma ukuqoqwa kwamakhukhamba kungenzeki ngenkathi yendabuko, kufanelekile ukubheka eduze izenzakalo eziseduzane ezingenza inkinga ingabonakali empilweni ejabulisayo yowesifazane.