Ngokwezibonakaliso ku-Cover for Women, ngo-Okthoba 14, kubalulekile ukuchitha imali, ukudabuka nokucasulwa ngalolu suku akuvumelekile neze. Uma ngabe le ntombazane izojabula futhi izohlala ijabule futhi ijabule phakathi neholide lonke, izokwazi ukuheha injabulo nokuthanda empilweni yakhe. Ngaphandle kwalokho, akasoze alindela ukuthi ukuchuma nokuchuma kuyobusa endlini yakhe.
Izimpawu ekuvikeleni iNdodana Engcwele Yabesifazane
Uma intombazane iphupha ngenjabulo yomndeni nokuchuma, khona-ke idinga ukwenza lezi zindlela ezilandelayo:
- Vuka ekuseni, ugeze ubuso bakho ngamanzi entwasahlobo futhi ngokushesha emva kokudla kwasekuseni uqale ukupheka amaswidi. Ngokwesibonakaliso sabesifazane e-Pokrov, ukubhaka kufanele kuphathwe kubantu abathandekayo, isibonelo, abangani bakho noma umthandi wakho. Ngemuva kwesiko elinjalo, ungalindela ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzothola uthando futhi ushade.
- Indodakazikazi engashadile kufanele ibophe ubuhlungu, lokhu kuyasiza ukuheha umkhwenyana. Uma owesifazane usuvele eshadile, kuwukuhlakanipha ukubopha ihekhi, ngakho-ke usize ukubusa empilweni yomkhaya nokuchuma, emva komkhuba onjalo, umyeni uzokuthanda nakakhulu.
- Isibonakaliso esihle ekuvikelweni kweMariya oMsindisayo ngowesifazane uyoba, uma enikezwa izimbali ezintsha, umcimbi onjalo kusho ukuthi ubuhle bakhe buzoqhakaza kuphela. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi akekho oye wakhipha isixha, ungayithenga ngokwakho, kuzosiza ukuheha impilo nenhlalakahle.
- Isixazululo esihle kakhulu siyobe sihalalisele ngeholide okungenani umbhangqwana oyedwa oshadile, zama ukukhetha umuntu ohlala ngokuthula nokuchuma. Intombazane engashadile izodonsela umyeni omuhle kakhulu, futhi owesifazane oshadile uzokwazi ukuqinisa uthando phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe.
- Futhi, ngokwezibonakaliso, umkhosi wokuvikelwa kweNdodakazikazi Ebusisiwe uMariya owesifazane kuyisenzakalo esihle kakhulu sokusungula ubudlelwane nezihlobo, ukubenza babe namandla futhi benobungane. Kulolu suku udinga ukuwabiza, noma uvakashele, ucele intethelelo kuzo zonke izikhalazo futhi ulahle imizwelo emibi, uma ikhona. Phatha izihlobo zakho ngento enhle, zama ukuchitha ubusuku ukuze uthole izingxoxo zokuthula, ngokwenza lokhu, ungaqiniseka ukuthi ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho buzophuthuka.
- Ungakhohlwa ukuya enkonzweni yesonto bese unikeza izipho. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba usondele ngesikhathi sokugcwaliseka kwesifiso sakho esithandekayo, khumbula nje ukuthi ungakwazi futhi udinga kuphela lokho okungeke kwenzethe usizi kwabanye abantu, kungenjalo iphupho ngeke libe ngokoqobo.
- Yenza umkhosi wesivikelo sabesifazane abangashadile, kusiza ukuthola umkhwenyana. Ngosuku lomkhosi, thatha izingubo zakho zansuku zonke futhi ubophe amafindo kuso, shiya i-blouse noma enye into yokugqoka kule ndawo kuze kube kusihlwa bese ukhulula emva kokunyama. Ngakho-ke ulahla umthwalo wesizungu, ukwandise ukukhangisa kwakho kwamadoda, ukwandise amathuba okuba nomhlangano wothando esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
- Ukondla izinyoni ngesinkwa imvuthu noma ummbila, kusiza ukuheha ukuchuma endlini. Kuhle uma kunethuba lokunikeza izinyoni iziqu zazo ezenziwe ngokubhaka, ngakho-ke umkhuba uzoba ngempumelelo nakakhulu. Ngendlela, bhekani ukuziphatha kwezinyoni, uma bengesabi ukusondela eduze kwakho, noma ngisho nokugubha imivimbo ngezandla zakho, khona-ke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kakhulu isifiso sakho esikuthanda kakhulu sizogcwaliseka. Uma kunjalo uma izinyoni zikwesaba noma ungafuni ukudla, kufanele ubheke ukuziphatha kwakho, mhlawumbe kufanele uzishintshe futhi wenze abantu babe ngcono kakhulu, ngaphandle kwalokho uzobe ude kakhulu ukufuna injabulo.