Noma kunjalo, odokotela bagcizelela ukuthi ezinsukwini zokuqala ezingu-13-15 zokukhulelwa, akukho izinqubo ezingabangela ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kwenzeka emzimbeni. Ngakho-ke, azikho izimpawu zokuthi ukukhulelwa kungatholakala emavikini okuqala, ngokuyisisekelo. Ngempela, eqinisweni, isonto lokuqala lokukhulelwa ngokwendlela yokuvimbela isonto kusukela ngosuku lokuqala lokuya esikhathini. Kodwa uzovuma, kuleli sonto lokukhulelwa, futhi ngenxa yalokho ukukhulelwa, akakho nje, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuyichaza.
Yini engabonisa ukuqala kokukhulelwa?
Izimpawu kuphela kodwa ezingathembeki zokukhulelwa emasontweni okuqala ukungabikho kokuya esikhathini. Kodwa-ke, ukubambezeleka kungase kuphakame nezinye izizathu, ngezinye izikhathi kubonisa ukuthi isifo siphuthuka.
Isonto lokuqala lokukhulelwa liviki emva kokuvuthwa, futhi izibonakaliso zokuqala zokukhulelwa zenzeka kwesibili noma kwesithathu:
- ukuvuvukala kwezigulane ezincelisayo;
- khuthaza ukuchama;
- ukubekezelelani emakhaleni anzima;
- isiyezi;
- ukukhishwa kwesisu;
- ukwethuka ngokushintsha kwemizwelo.
Lolu hlu lungadluliselwa, kufaka phakathi ezinye izimpawu zomuntu, isici ngisho nangesonto lokuqala lokukhulelwa, izimpawu nezinzwa. Isibonelo:
- ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa;
- shintsha ekuthandweni kokuncintisana;
- ukuzwela okukhulu kwezigulane ezincelisayo;
- ubuhlungu esiswini esingaphansi;
- ukwanda kokushisa okuyisisekelo.
Noma kunjalo, zonke lezi zimpawu akunakwenzeka. Okungenzeka, kepha futhi nokungathembeki iqiniso - ukwanda kwamazinga okushisa komzimba . Uma izinga lokushisa esikhathini esizayo kwezinsuku ezimbalwa ezilindelekile ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ligcinwe ngaphakathi kwezingu-37 nangaphezulu, khona-ke ngamathuba amancinci ongawahlulela ngokukhulelwa. Kulokhu, ungafaki izinqubo zokuvuvukala ezenzeka emzimbeni.
Futhi, mayelana nezibonakaliso zokuqala zokukhulelwa, ngesonto ngemuva kokukhulelwa, ukuphuma kwegazi kungakhuluma.
Ukufingqa konke okushiwo ngenhla, singasho ukuthi kuwo wonke owesifazane isonto lokuqala lokukhulelwa alibonakali ngokugcwele nanoma yiziphi izimpawu nezimpawu. Ngisho nomjozi wezinkinga zezinzwa ngeke akwazi njalo ukukhulelwa ngesikhathi esifushane. Ngakho-ke, izimpawu zokukhulelwa, ngisho nangemva kwesonto lokubambezeleka, kungenzeka ukuthi azikho. Noma kunjalo, kungenzeka njalo ukunquma isimo sakho ngokuhlolwa . Kodwa ngisho uzobonisa umugqa wesibili ezinsukwini ezingu-10-12.