Abanye abantu balindele ukufika kwesikhathi sokuthatha umhlalaphansi, njengesikhathi lapho ungakwazi ukuphumula nokwenza izinto ozithandayo. Ekuqaleni, ngemuva kokuthatha umhlalaphansi, kwenzeka. Nokho, kancane kancane umuntu uhlanganisa isimo sokucindezeleka esihlotshaniswa nomuzwa wokungabi nalutho nesizungu. Lesi simo asiyona into ejwayelekile kubantu abahlala emikhayeni emikhulu futhi bahlanganyela emfundweni yabazukulu. Kodwa uma umuntu enesizungu, angakwazi ukungena esizungu futhi alahlekelwe injongo yokuphila. Ukuvimbela lokhu kungenzeki, udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungenzani umhlalaphansi kumfazi. Ngokuqinisekile, zonke izinto zokuzilibazisa kufanele zihlangane ngandlela-thile nabantu, ukuxhumana okusiza umuntu ukuba ahlale engumuntu.
Yini okufanele uyenze empesheni kumuntu oyedwa?
Nakuba izinga lempesheni yezinto ezibonakalayo akukuvumeli njalo ukuthi wenze lokho okuthandayo, kufanele uzame ukuzitholela ngokuqondile umsebenzi ozoletha injabulo, futhi ngeke uholele ekutheni imfucuza yemali ejulile. Nazi imibono embalwa, okufanele ukwenze kowesifazane osemhlalaphansi:
- Bhalisa kumanethiwekhi omphakathi . Kuzo ungathola izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo, futhi ngosizo lwabo ukuze uhlale uxhumane nabangani nabantu obaziyo. Abantu abaningi asebekhulile besaba ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukwazi ikhompyutha kanye ne-Inthanethi. Nokho, eqinisweni, kancane kancane, umuntu ngamunye angaba ngumsebenzisi othembekile wekhompyutha.
- Qala ibhulogi yakho ngesihloko sentshisekelo yakho, lapho ungahlanganyela khona nakho kokuphila kwakho.
- Thatha ukulima. Ngalokhu ungazibamba futhi ngisho noma udinga ukuthola imali eyengeziwe. Uma kungekho nsimu, ungatshala izimbali endlini.
- Njengoba ufuna ukuthi yini ongayenza lapho usuhlala khona kumuntu wesifazane, ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuzilibazisa . Ukwazi, ugobe, u-embroider, upende i-matryoshkas, yenza izinto ezenziwe ngezandla. Le ndlela yokuzilibazisa ingabuye ibe umthombo wemali engenayo eyengeziwe.
- Bheka izingane eziseduze. Ngezinye izikhathi abazali kudingeka bahambe, kodwa akekho oshiya ingane. Uma kunjalo, uzoba umuntu obalulekile!