Indlela yokunqoba ukuxhomeka ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi?

Uyaphuma waya emgwaqweni kusihlwa futhi uzizwe sengathi udubula efilimpheni elidakayo, ngoba awukho umphefumulo emgwaqweni, nakho konke, ngoba wonke umuntu uhlezi ekhaya eduze kwikhompyutha futhi ekhuluma kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Inkinga yekhulu lama-21 ingumlutha we-intanethi. Kunzima kakhulu ukuthola umuntu ongabhaliswanga kunoma iyiphi inethiwekhi yezenhlalo futhi akahambi khona okungenani kanye ngosuku ukuze ahlole ukuthi othile ubhalele kuye noma angakwenza, abe "njengokuthanda". Namuhla, abantu abasha abahlangabezani egcekeni, futhi baxoxisana ne-intanethi, umfana nentombazane uqala ukujwayelana nombuzo ongathí sina "Ingabe umama wakho akadingi umkhwenyana?" Kodwa nge "Ungangeza yini njengomngane?".

Izimpawu zokuthembela ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi

1. Uma isithakazelo, kungani kungabikho muntu okubhalela kuwe, kunqoba, phezu kombuzo, uma udla okuthile namhlanje noma cha, sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi uqala ukuphila impilo yangempela.
2. Uma into yokuqala oyenzayo uma uvuka - vula ikhompyutha bese uchitha sonke isikhathi samahhala phambi kwesosikhathi emini, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sokuthembela.
3. Uyazi ngabangani bakho kuphela ngenxa yokuxhumana nomphakathi, futhi uma ugcine ukubonana, ungakhumbuli. Ubheka izigidi zezithombe nsuku zonke, funda izimo futhi wazi kuphela ngempilo yabanye, lokhu kungenye yezibonakaliso ezinkulu zokuthembela.
4. Uhlu lwabangani bakho abangaphezu kuka-2 000 abantu, nakuba, eqinisweni, awukwazi okungaphezu kwezingamashumi amathathu.
5. Ukhokha imali yangempela ukuthenga amanye amavoti, ngakho-ke ungathumela othile isipho esivelele noma iposikhadi, ayeke futhi ucabange, ngoba unezinkinga zangempela.
6. Uma ngokungazelelwe i-intanethi idlulele kuwe lokhu sekuphela kwezwe, awukwazi ukuthi ungenzeni futhi unqamule ifoni yomhlinzeki, konke, kuyiqiniso - unomlutha we-intanethi.

Qhathanisa izincwadi zokuxhumana ngokuxhumana kwangempela, uma ubona imizwelo yomuntu, yithinte, ngaphandle kokuthi "ukumomotheka" kufaka esikhundleni ukumomotheka kwangempela.

Yini okufanele ngiyenze?

Uma ungashintshi okuthile ngesikhathi esifushane, ubhapathizwe ngokuphila okungeke ukwazi ukuphuma lapho.

1. Qala ukunciphisa kancane kancane isikhathi esichithwa kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Isibonelo, usuku ngalunye lungaphezulu kwesigamu sehora. Isikhathi samahhala sokusebenzisa ngokuxhumana kwangempela. Qala okungenani izingxoxo zocingo, lokhu kuzoba yisinyathelo sokuqala sibe yiqiniso. Yiya ku-cinema, i-cafe, uxoxe nabantu bangempela, futhi uzobona ukuthi ujabulise futhi ukhululekile kangakanani. Uma ufuna ukwabelana okuthile nabangani bakho, ungabhali isimo esisha, ubatshele ngakho.
2. Beka umkhawulo wokuxhumana kunethiwekhi, uma ungakwazi ukuyilawula ngokwakho, cela othile kusuka ezihlotsheni zakho. Ukuze ubone izithombe, funda izindaba ngehora lehora, isikhathi esiphezulu sehora. Kukhona ngisho nezinhlelo ezikhethekile ezingalinganisa isikhathi, bese uvimbela ikhompyutha.
3. Susa kusuka efonini zonke izinhlelo ezikuvumela ukuthi uhambe kunethiwekhi yezenhlalo, ngakho-ke emgwaqweni futhi uphume ekhaya ngeke ulingeke.
4. Funda izincwadi zangempela noma uthenge inguqulo ye-elektroniki engenayo i-intanethi. Amabhuku anomthelela omuhle ebuchosheni bomuntu, ungakwazi ukugxila ekutholeni ulwazi oluqondile, futhi ngeke luphazamiseke yizo zonke izixhumanisi ezikhangayo nezikhangiso.
5. Funda ukuthola ulwazi kusuka kumaphephandaba, omagazini, kanye nezindaba eziya ku-TV. I-intanethi kumele isetshenziswe ngokweqile kakhulu, uma kudingekile ngempela. Uma ususa umlutha womphakathi, ungavame ukuba ku-Intanethi.
6. Futhi manje inombolo yokufa - susa wonke amakhasi akho kuwo wonke amanethiwekhi omphakathi. Ekuqaleni kuyoba nzima, kodwa emasontweni ambalwa uzojabula kakhulu ngesenzo sakho, ngoba manje unesikhathi esiningi sokukhulumisana kwangempela nabangani bakho.