Esinye isazi sezengqondo sathi: "Ukuthi phakathi kwemilenze kukhona phansi, futhi phakathi kwezindlebe ubulili." Ngesikhathi seminyaka emibili, izingane ziqala ukuqaphela ubulili bazo, futhi phakathi nenkathi yobusha, ukuphakama kobulili obunjalo kubangelwa, ngenxa yokuthi umuntu onempilo noma ongenakho ukuziqhenya angakha.
Ubani ubulili bomuntu ngamunye?
Ungabi yindoda noma owesifazane, umfana noma intombazane, kodwa futhi uziphathe ngokufanele, ugqoke, ube nemigomo ethile, imikhuba, imikhuba - konke lokhu kunquma ukuthi ungubani. Futhi, futhi, kuvela ngesisekelo semfundo, ngenqubo yokuxhumana nabantu, ukuxhumana nezwe elizungezile. Akukwazi ukusho ukuthi ubulili ubunikazi bungabonakala, kuthinteke futhi kufane - bufana nokuqonda, imicabango, ngezwi, ikhona kithi ngamunye.
Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukukhuluma ukuthi izihlobo eziseduzane zengane zithonya ukwakheka okufanele kobulili futhi lokhu, okokuqala, abazali. Amantombazane afunda ukuba ngumfazi ngesibonelo somama wabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abazali, nakuba bengazi lutho, abafundisa izingane zabo ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane ngesibonelo sengqondo somuntu siqu kumuntu oshade naye, oshade naye.
Izinhlobo zobulili
Ngamunye wethu, ngezinga elithile, izici zombili zesilisa nabesifazane zizibonakalisa ngokwazo. Ngokusekelwe kulolu lwazi, izinhlobo ezilandelayo zobunikazi bobulili ziyahlukaniswa:
- Ukungabonakali - izici zesintu nezesifazane azivezwa kahle;
- izidalwa zesilisa - izidakamizwa eziyinhloko (ukuhlukumezeka, ukuqinisekiswa, ukuzimela);
- owesifazane - owesifazane ophethe owesifazane, isifiso sokubonisa uthando emhlabeni wonke, isifiso sokuba umgcini wendlu;
- futhi i-androgynous - kunezilinganiso zamadoda nabesifazane.
Ukuphazamiseka kobulili obunikazi
Ukuphulwa kobulili bobulili akuyona into ehlukile
Ubulili be-dysphoria bungaba umphumela wezinguquko ze-intrauterine, ithonya lokuphathwa kwe-hormonal endleleni yokuphumelela yokukhulelwa.
Kuze kube manje, ukhetho olulodwa lokuthola ukwelashwa okuphumelelayo kwesifo sobulili ubhekwa njengokusebenza kokushintsha kocansi noma ukusetshenziswa kwama-anti-depressants.