Kuphila kwabesifazane bonke, ngokushesha noma kamuva kukhona umcimbi omkhulu - ukuzalwa kwengane. Kwabaningi, indima yomama ingavamile, inomthwalo wemfanelo kakhulu futhi ithatha cishe sonke isikhathi samahhala. Futhi ukuphila akumi futhi abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi kudlula. Unyaka noma unyaka nonyaka ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane, abesifazane baqala ukucabanga ngokuya emsebenzini. Kodwa uya kuphi? Ingabe kufanele ngibuyele endaweni yami yangaphambili nokuthi yini okufanele ngiyenze uma kungekho misebenzi nhlobo? Enye inkinga yandisa ukukhathazeka. Kungakhathaliseki ihlaya, ukuphumula kokuphila iminyaka engu-2-3. Ukubuyela kwisigqi esivamile kuhlale kugxile kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, asikho isimo esinjalo lapho bekungeke kube khona indlela yokuphuma. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi singabhekana kanjani nemizwelo futhi sithole umsebenzi ohloniphekile.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuqeda ukukhathazeka nokungaqiniseki
Njengoba bethi, indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nokumesaba ukumbheka ebusweni. Phakathi kwabaningi omama omncane kunomlutha - uhlobo luni lomsebenzi, futhi luhlobo luni lwe-diploma, uma izinkondlo zezingane kuphela kanye nekhono lokupheka i-porridge zihlala ekhanda? Eqinisweni, konke akunjalo emhlabeni jikelele. Uma ungabaza amakhono akho, aziqiniseki kuwe futhi angazi ukuthi yini osebenzayo, zama ukukwenza okuncane kokuzivocavoca:
- Hlala phansi futhi uthathe indawo ekhululekile. Vala amehlo akho bese ucabanga ukuthi uhlezi entabeni ephakeme, lapho ungabona khona iziqongo zemithi, imifula nomgwaqo omude;
- cabanga ukuthi ngaleyo ndlela impilo yakho. Ukuqala komgwaqo ukuzalwa kwakho, futhi ukugubha ikusasa lakho;
- ubheke phansi empilweni yakho, qala ukukhumbula izikhathi eziqhakazile. Lezo zimo lapho ungakaze uzizwe uphezulu, ekuphakameni kwenkazimulo nokwaneliseka kuwe. Khumbula ukuthi lezi zikhathi zaziyini, futhi ngaphansi kweziphi izimo ezenzeka;
- zibophe nge-notebook bese ubhala phansi bese ubhala phansi izibonelo ezingu-10 lapho uzizwa ujabule, uthande, uphumelele, njll. ;
- emva kokuvivinya umzimba, hlaziya amarekhodi akho. Bazokunika impendulo yombuzo walokho okufunayo futhi ongakwenza kulokhu kuphila, obani ongaba khona nokuthi yiziphi impumelelo ezizozifeza.
Ngalesi sivivinyo, uzophinde uthole ukholo kuwe nasemandleni akho. Kumele uqaphele ukungafani kwakho futhi uqonde ukuthi yini ongathanda ukuyenza nokuthi yini ekunika injabulo.
Ngakho-ke, uma uziqonda, udinga ukuya esigabeni sesibili - ngqo ekusesheni umsebenzi.
Isinyathelo sesibili - umsebenzi nokufunwa kuphakamisa iziphakamiso
Umthetho oyinhloko owesifazane okufanele awamukele ukuthi akudingeki ulinde aze akuthole futhi akunike umsebenzi. Qala ukulungiselela ukucinga ngokwakho. Ngokuqinisekile, ingane, lokhu kuyinzuzo yakho, ngoba kukhona isiqinisekiso sokuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduzane awuhambisani ngqo nomthetho. Nokho, ngakolunye uhlangothi, omama abasebasha abathandi abaqashi ngempela. Kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu:
- izinga lelwazi lakho ngemuva kokushiya isimemezelo, njengomthetho, ushiya okungafunwa;
- akekho oye wakhansela isici esinjengokushintsha kwengane enkulisa. Abaqashi ngeke bajabule ukuba nesisebenzi esivame ukuya ehoreni lokugula ngenxa yengane;
- esinye isizathu esibucayi ukungaqiniseki. Ngemuva kwesimiso, kunzima owesifazane ukuhlola amandla akhe njengesisebenzi. Ngaphezu amakhilogremu ambalwa, esele emva kokulethwa, ecindezela cishe wonke umuntu. Futhi leli qiniso ngeke libonwe.
Yini okufanele uyenze, ubuza? Kubalulekile ukusebenza, futhi impilo iqhubeka. Futhi umsebenzi wakho ukuguqula kulokhu kuphila futhi uthwale zonke izithiyo endleleni yakho. Vele ulalele amathiphu athile:
- Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukufuna umsebenzi, sebenzisa izinketho ezidingekayo zokunakekela ingane: ngubani ozomshayela enkulisa bese ehlala naye ohlwini olugulayo, qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho isivele ishintshe umbuso we-enkulisa futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, iyaqonda ukuthi umama shiya lonke usuku kuze kuhlwe.
- Lapho umbuzo wenhlangano yengane yengane unqunywe, zama ukuya eholidini futhi uphumule kancane emntwaneni kanye nombuso wamanje wosuku. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ushintshe isimo bese uhlala kancane ngaphambi kokuthola umsebenzi. Qaphela isibalo sakho, impilo, ikhabethe nokubukeka. Shayela usizo labo abangazange baphelelwe ukuphila kwabo iminyaka engu-2-3 futhi baqonde izitayela zanamuhla.
- Zenzele ukuthi uphinde uphumelele. Ukuzivocavoca, okwakunconywa ekuqaleni, kuzosiza ukunquma ulwazi lwakho nesithunzi.
- Umsizi omkhulu ekusesheni umsebenzi yi-intanethi. Namuhla, omama abaningi abasha bathola umsebenzi ekhaya (okuthiwa yi-freelance) noma ekuphumeni ku-oda, bafuna izinjini zokusesha ekufuneni umsebenzi. Kumele ngithi ngaphandle kwempumelelo.
- Nakani amasayithi anikezela ngamasevisi ukuthola umsebenzi. Ungashiya ukuqhubeka kwakho futhi uthole uhlu lwansuku zonke lwazo zonke izithuba ezikulandela. Uma uthola okuthile okuthakazelisayo, ungashayela umqashi ongase ube khona noma uthumele i-resume yakho ukuze ucatshangelwe. Futhi konke lokhu, ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya! Kanti futhi, ungahlola kumasayithi anjengokuthi uhleleke kahle ngokuqhubekayo futhi wengeze kumaqiniso abhaliwe athakazelisayo ngawe.
Isinyathelo Sesithathu - iya ku-interview
Uma usubelwe i-interview, khumbula imithetho embalwa ngaphambi kokuqala ingxoxo:
- Qaphela ukuthi ingane yakho isivele isenkulisa futhi uma isifo, uzoba nomuntu ozohlala naye.
- Tshela iqiniso ngesimo sangempela sezinto empilweni yakho. Isibonelo, ukuthi awunawo indawo engapheli yomsebenzi, kodwa uhlezi esinqumweni, ulandela njalo imigqa emisha yomsebenzi oyikhethile, njll. Into esemqoka ukuxhumana nokuphathwa okungenzeka kolimi lwebhizinisi nokuveza ukuzethemba.
- Ngisho noma wenqatshiwe, ungathukutheli. Ngakho lokhu akuwona umsebenzi owudingayo futhi kuhle ukuthi umuntu ongaboni amandla akho ngeke abe ngumphathi wakho.
Khumbula into esemqoka - kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi, kungaba ukucinga ngomsebenzi, noma ukuqaphela impilo yonke, kuqala kokudinga ukuzethemba. Uma usungakholelwa kuwe njengochwepheshe obuhle kakhulu, abaqashi ngeke babe nezinye izinketho zokuthi bayakholelwa kanjani. Kunoma yikuphi, wakwazi ukubeletha futhi ukhulise ingane, okuyisenzo sobuqhawe, esifanele ukuziqhenya kwakho. Gcina lokhu kuqhosha futhi uzophumelela!