Uma unesithakazelo kumbuzo wokuthi ungathola kanjani umthandi ocebile, okokuqala kufanele unqume ngomgomo. Yini oyifunayo, uthando, noma ubuhlobo bobulili kuphela? Uma umgomo oyinhloko uthando , kubalulekile ukuthi le ndoda ingashadile.
Sibheka iqiniso lokuthi kuyadingeka ukunakekela ukubonakala kwakho ukuheha. Lokhu kuyadingeka ngesizathu sokuthi umthandi ocebile akanalo ibha ephansi ekuhloleni kommeleli wesigamu esihle somuntu. Owesifazane, ngokwezindinganiso zala madoda, kufanele ahlale ekhangayo, encane futhi ezithakazelisayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuzinakekela wena - ukhiphe isisindo esiningi, ukhethe izinwele ezifanele, uthenge izicathulo ezinhle, izingubo futhi wenze ukwakheka okuhle. Ummeleli wesigamu esihle somuntu kufanele abukeke ephelele, eqala ekhanda futhi aphethwe ngamasu ezipikili emilenzeni.
Ukuheha umuntu onjalo kubalulekile ukugcizelela isikhalo sakhe sobulili. Kulokhu kubalulekile ukugcizelela isithunzi sakho nobulili ngosizo lwezingubo, ukubukeka, ukuthinta . Ikhono lokubonisa lezi zimfanelo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lidlala indima ebalulekile, kodwa ukugcina ibhalansi kubalulekile. Ukuzilahla ngokobulili nomuntu oyithandayo isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba indoda kufanele ikunqobe futhi leli iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu.
Ungayitholaphi umthandi ocebile?
Njengoba usesha futhi ucabanga ukuthi ungathola kanjani umthandi ocebile, ungavakashela izindawo lapho ungavame ukuhlangabezana nabamele iqhaza elinamandla lomuntu. Ngokuvamile lezi zingamaqembu, izindawo zokudlela noma izindawo zokudlela ezibizayo. Uma ungenayo le mali ukukhokhela iholide phesheya, ungathola umsebenzi eqenjini elihloniphekile noma kwezinye izindawo lapho amadoda acebile ngokuvamile ekhetha ukuphumula.