Esinye sezici umuntu azihlonipha owesifazane ubulili bakhe . Abaningi kakhulu besifazane banikezwa ngemvelo. Nokho, akuwona wonke umuntu ongayisebenzisa ngenxa yemfundo, izici zobuntu noma izimo zokuphila.
Ngokuvamile, abameleli bobulili obuhle bafuna izimpendulo zemibuzo ecacile mayelana nendlela yokuziphatha embhedeni nomuntu. Bacabanga ukuthi kumele kube khona izimfihlo ezikhethekile abangazi. Kodwa-ke, ukucwaninga kwamakhohlisi emidlalo yezocansi akukwazi ukuletha imiphumela emihle, uma kungekho ukuqonda okulungile ngalokho intombazane okufanele ibe khona embhedeni. Imfihlo eyinhloko ukuba ebuhlotsheni obuseduze ukuba ibe mahhala futhi yemvelo.
Indlela yokuziphatha nomuntu ocansini?
Ukuze uqonde indlela yokuziphatha nomuntu, umuntu kufanele aqonde ukuthi bathanda yini ubudlelwane bobulili, futhi uhlobo luni lokuziphatha owesifazane abafisa kubo. Abamele ubulili obunamandla obubizwa ngokuthi izintandokazi ezinjalo, ezibasiza ukuba bathole injabulo enkulu kwezocansi, futhi abesifazane benze abathandi abahle:
- Amadoda afana nawo lapho owesifazane efuna ucansi . Lokhu kubakhuthaza kakhulu futhi kubangele ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo. Uma umlingani eshisa ngomlilo, ushukumisela amadoda ekusebenzisaneni ngokobulili futhi abangela isifiso sokuba naye esikhathini esizayo.
- Owesifazane kufanele akwazi ukuzijabulisa . Isikhathi lapho lona wesifazane engazange azi ngokugcwele ngomzimba wakhe kwase kudlulile isikhathi eside. Umlingani kufanele azi ukuthi uthanda ukuthini ngocansi, yiziphi izingxenye zomzimba wakhe ezihlukumezayo kakhulu, ezithokozisa kakhulu. Amadoda amaningi ajabulela kuphela uma owesifazane ewutholile.
- Owesifazane kufanele asebenze kule ndaba . Amadoda afuna owesifazane ukuba abe umqambi wokuxhumana ngocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda afuna owesifazane olele embhedeni ukuba asebenze, futhi angenandaba.
- Kufanele unakekele umlingani wakho . Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuthanda uthando, lo mlingani akasivumeli nje kuphela ukuthi umuntu amkhathaze,
kodwa wamkhathaza umlingani wakhe, waqaphela ukuthi uphile kahle. - Ungesabi ukuhlolwa . Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubudlelwane obuseduze buba bubi futhi bubikezelwe. Ukuze ushintshe isimo, kufanele uvulekele ukuhlolwa kanye nezinqubo ezintsha. Yiqiniso, zonke izinto ezintsha kufanele zibe mnandi kubo bobabili abalingani.
I-Psychology inganikeza amathiphu amaningi mayelana nendlela yokuziphatha nomuntu. Kodwa enye ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuba inkosikazi enhle kumuntu. Ukwaziswa okuncane, uthando lomlingani nokuqonda umzimba wakho - kanti umlingani wakho uzokubona ukuthi ungowesifazane ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni.