Kuyo yonke impilo, umuntu uhlangana nabantu abahlukene abangela imizwa eminingi. Singathandwa, siwazisa, sizondwa, sivikelwe, siphuthelwe, njll. Abagcini bezengqondo kuphela, kodwa futhi abantu abakholwayo bakholelwa ukuthi awukwazi ukubuthela okubi emphefumulweni wakho, ngoba kuholela ekulahleni kuphela. Kukhona umthandazo okhethekile wokuthukuthela nokusizonda, ukufunda ukuthi umuntu angazihlanza yini embi futhi afeze ukuphelela. Abafundisi bathi uma umuntu evuthisa ukuthandazela izitha zakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuzimisela kwakhe ukungena eMbusweni kaNkulunkulu.
Ungenza izikhalazo zomthandazo zombili ekhaya nasebandleni. Okubaluleke kakhulu indawo. Uma ufuna ukuvuma, ngakho-ke phambi kwakhe, udinga ukuthandazela izitha ukuba uzicabange ukungabi nalutho.
Kungani ufunda umthandazo kulabo abasizondayo futhi besicasula?
Ukuqonda le nkinga, siphakamisa ukuphendukela kwimithombo yenkolo. Ngenkathi uJesu ebethelwe esiphambanweni, waphendukela kuNkulunkulu wamcela ukuba athethelele amasosha ayebandakanyeka ekubulaweni kanye nabantu ababebukele okwakwenzeka futhi bengenzi lutho. Inkolo yobuKristu ibilokhu ibizwa ngokuthi "ukuthethelela", ngoba eTestamente Elidala umuzwa wokuziphindiselela ufakwe ohlwini lwezono ezimbi. Kukhona umyalo onjalo ochaza ngokucacile isimiso sokuthethelela: "Uma uhlaselwa esihlathini esisodwa, bese ushintsha omunye." Ngageza le nkulumo ngokujulile kunalokho, kubonakala, ngoba kusiza umuntu ukuhlukanisa ingozi enhlosweni enonya. Amakholwa akholelwa ukuthi ukuthandazela izitha ezizondayo kusiza ukuhlanza umphefumulo wakho bese usondela kuNkulunkulu.
Ngokuvamile kuzo zonke izinkolo kunamathebhu athile, uhlu oluhlanganisa nesifiso sokuphindiselela. EbuKristwini kukholelwa ukuthi umuntu ovame ukuthukuthela, ozonda abanye futhi ufuna ukuphindiselela, umane umnyama umphefumulo wakhe. Kudingeka ufunde imithandazo njalo, futhi uyenze kuphela ngenhliziyo ehlanzekile kanye nezinhloso ezinhle. Ngaphambi kukaNkulunkulu kubalulekile ukuvula kuphela ngale ndlela, kuyokwenzeka ukuthola isibusiso nokusekelwa eziNkundleni eziPhakeme.
Umthandazo wokuthethelela labo abondayo futhi bangicasule mina Ignaty Bryanchaninov
Lo mthandazo ubonga kakhulu, ngoba ongcwele ucela ukuthumela uNkulunkulu ezitheni zezibusiso ezihlukahlukene. Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi yizitha ezivumela umuntu ukuba asondele kuNkulunkulu, efundisa ukuthobeka nokuqaphela izono ezikhona.
Umbhalo womkhuleko walabo abasizondayo nabasicasulayo:
"Ngiyabonga, Nkosi noNkulunkulu wami, ngoba konke okufeziwe kuphezu kwami! Ngiyakubonga ngakho konke ukudabuka nezilingo ozongithumela ngazo ekuhlanjululweni kwalabo abangcolisiwe ngezono, ngokuphulukiswa kwezono ezilonda, umphefumulo nomzimba wami! Yiba nomusa futhi ulondoloze lezozinto owazisetshenziselwa ukuphulukiswa kwami: labo bantu abangihlambalaza. Babusise kule nkulungwane nezayo ezayo! Banikezele ngalokho abakwenzile kimi! Wabanike emasimini akho angunaphakade amaningi. Ngikuletheleni kuwe? Yini ejabulisa imihlatshelo? Ngilethe izono kuphela, ukuphulwa okunye kwemithetho yakho yaphezulu. Ngithethelele, Nkosi, uthethelele onecala phambi kwakho naphambi kwabantu! Khothelela ngomoya omnene futhi ongenakuphikiswa! Nginike ukuthi ngiqiniseke futhi ngivume ngobuqotho ukuthi ngingumoni! Nginike ukuthi nginqabe izizathu ezimbi! Ngiphe ukuphenduka! Nginike inhliziyo ephukile! Nginike ukuthobeka nokuthobeka! Nikeza uthando kumakhelwane bakho, thande abangenacala, okufanayo kubo bonke, nenduduzo futhi bangiklolodele! Nginike ukubekezela kuzo zonke izinsizi zami! Ngife ngenxa yokuthula! Geza kimi intando yami yesono, futhi utshale intando yakho engcwele enhliziyweni yami, wenze kube yinye futhi isebenze, namagama nemicabango, kanye nemizwa yami. "
Kuneminye imithandazo kulabo abasizondayo futhi basicasulayo.
I-Troparion, iTone 4:
"Nkosi yothando, owathandazela labo abanibethela esiphambanweni, nabafundi bakho ngezitha ezathandaza! Labo abasizondayo futhi basicasulayo, bathethelele futhi baphenduke ebubini bonke nokukhohlisa baphile impilo yobuzalwane nobuhle, becela ngokuthobeka kuwe: masikukhazimulise wena, lowo u-Humano, ngokuvumelana nomqondo munye. "
I-Kontakion, Ithoni yesi-5:
"Njengomfel 'ukholo wokuqala uStefan wakho wathandazela labo abambulalayo, Nkosi, futhi thina, siwela kuwe, sithandaza: thiya wonke umuntu futhi usikhubekise, uthethelele, ukuze kungabikho noyedwa wabo ngenxa yethu olahlekile, kodwa bonke basindiswe ngomusa wakho, uNkulunkulu unesihawu" .