Umndeni wakwa-Foster nokukhathalela - umehluko

Iningi labantu azi lutho ngezinto ezibalulekile zezintandane. Kodwa akekho ozophikisana ngokuthi ngisho nentandane enhle kunazo zonke ayikwazi ukuthatha indawo yengane nomndeni.

Uma umbhangqwana oshadile, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, unquma ukuthatha izintandane, umbuzo uvela - yikuphi uhlobo lomthetho lokulondoloza okufanele lukhethwe?

Ake sicabange ukuthi yini umehluko phakathi kokulondeka nomndeni osondelene nabo.

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Leli fomu lesitokisini livumela ingane ukuba yamukelwe emndenini wayo esemncane. Unyaka wengane akufanele udlule iminyaka engu-14. Umlondolozi unikezwa amalungelo asebenzayo njengomzali wegazi ezindabeni zemfundo yezingane, ukwelashwa nokukhuliswa.

Kubantwana abanjalo, uhulumeni ukhokha imali, futhi iziphathimandla zendawo kufanele, uma kunesidingo, zisize emfundweni, ekwelapheni noma ekuvuseleleni. Ngemuva kweminyaka engu-18, banelungelo lokufaka izicelo zokuhlala emphakathini.

Kodwa izindikimba zokulondoloza zinelungelo lokuhlola ngokujwayelekile izimo zokuphila zengane, unelungelo lokungenela uma kwenzeka ukungalaleli noma ukwephula. Futhi, imfihlo yokuthunyelwa kwengane esitokisini ayitholakali, okwenza ingane ikwazi ukuxhumana nezihlobo zakhe zegazi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, kungenzeka kube khona umuntu ofuna ukutholwa ingane.

Phakathi kwezinzuzo zokubhalisa ukunakekelwa - azikho izidingo eziqinile kumgcini ngokwakhe kanye nezimo zakhe zezindlu.

Umndeni wakwa-Foster

Abazali abamukelayo bangathatha umndeni kusuka kwabantwana abayisishiyagalombili kuya kweziyisishiyagalombili bese bewakhuphulela ekhaya. Lesi yisisombululo esihle kunazo zonke izingane, okungesizathu esithile esingenakuzitholwa noma ukuboshwa.

Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi abazali abasanda kutholakala banelungelo lokuthola umholo futhi banolwazi encwadini yokusebenza. Ingane ithola isabelo senyanga, futhi inezinzuzo eziningana.

Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, iziphathimandla zokugcinwa zizoqapha njalo ababheki kanye nezindleko zemali. Inqubo yokubhalisa nayo iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukwenza iSivumelwano sokudlulisela imfundo kanye nenkontileka yeMisebenzi.

Ukubambisana, umndeni osamukelayo kanye nokutholwa - yini umehluko? Izinhlobo ezahlukene zokulondoloza zinamazinga ahlukene omthwalo wempilo yengane. Ukwamukelwa kunomthelela wokubaluleka ezinhlotsheni ezinjalo zomthetho zokulondoloza njengomndeni okhulisayo nokulondeka. Leli lizinga eliphakeme kakhulu lomthwalo wemfanelo. Ukwamukelwa ukuhlonishwa kwengane kanye nhlobo. Ingane ithola cishe amalungelo omhlobo wegazi, njengokungathi ubelethe. Abazali banelungelo lokushintsha hhayi kuphela igama, kodwa ngisho nosuku lokuzalwa kwengane. Ezinye izinhlobo zesitokisi zinikeza izinga eliphezulu, kodwa hhayi eliphelele.

Umndeni we-Foster noma isitoreji - okushiywe kubazali abazamukelayo esikhathini esizayo. Ngomntwana, impilo emndenini iphupho elilindelwe isikhathi eside, elithandwa yibo bonke abantwana bezintandane.