Amantombazane amaningi alindele lolu suku ngokubekezela okukhulu. Kwabaningi, ukwazi abazali bomfana kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni. Phela, uma umthandi wakho enqume ukuthatha isinyathelo esinjalo, kubonisa ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho bufinyelele ekuvuthweni. Okusho ukuthi, uyazi ukuthi unezinhlelo ezingathí sina kuwe.
Ake sibheke lezi zinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi ndawonye: ngabe kufanele wazi kanjani ukuqala kokuqala kwabazali bomfana, ukuthi intombazane kufanele iphathe kanjani, njll Into ebaluleke kakhulu manje ukwenza ukubonwa kokuqala kwabazali bakhe. Futhi, njengoba wazi, ukuqala kokuqala kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo yakho yesikhathi esizayo.
Ukukwazi nabazali bomfana - amathiphu amakhulu
1. Khumbula ukuthi iningi lemizamo yakho kufanele iqondiswe enhle yomama wakhe othandekayo. Ngokungangabazeki, ubaba oyinhloko emndenini. Kodwa ezimweni eziningi, umbono wakhe mayelana nendodakazi kamalokazana yesikhathi esizayo isekelwe kumbono womkakhe.
Lahla umbono wokuthi abazali kufanele banikezwe isipho. Uma umama womuntu othandekayo engumhlobo wabantu abaqaphele kakhulu, ngalesosikhathi ngeke abone lutho ngaphandle kokufumbathisa ngokuqondile. Ngenxa yalokhu, yena, phakathi nomhlangano wonke, uzoqala ukufuna kuwe lezo ziphutha, okwathi, ngombono wakhe, uzame ukuvala isipho.
2. Isizathu sesibili ukuthi kungani ungaziniki lutho kubazali bakhe ukuthi awukwazi nje ukujabulisa izintandokazi zabo. Futhi, ekugcineni, uzobekwa icala lokuntula ukunambitheka, noma ukuzama ukukhanya ngemali yakho.
Izipho zingcono kakhulu uma ususondelene nomndeni wakhe futhi uzokwazi ukubona lezo zipho ezizofika ngokushesha ekuthandweni kwazo.
3. Uma nje ungena ekhaya lomzali, ukumomotheka kusuka ezindebeni zakho ngeke kuphele ngokushesha. Ngisho noma behlangana nokushisa okungalindelekile kuwe, zama ukuba nobungane. Ngokuvamile khumbula ukuthi ukumomotheka kwakho kukusize ukuba uthande umthandi wakho ngosuku lwakho lokuqala. Akukwenywanga, uma kwenzeka ukuvakashela okokuqala kubazali bakhe, ukumomotheka kuzokusiza ukufihla ukuhlazeka emehlweni omama wakhe.
4. Ukukwazi le ntombazane kanye nabazali bendoda, cishe, ukuthi ngeke kwenziwe ngaphandle komkhosi. Ungaphenduli induku ngokusetshenziswa kwezibuko zewayini. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi unakekele umama ngethenda kumthandi wakho. Ngakho, uzonikeza
5. Lapho uphendula imibuzo mayelana nezinhlelo zakho zokuphila, zama ukunikeza izimpendulo ezinjalo, okungaba intambo emihle ehlotshaniswa nezithakazelo zomuntu othandekayo.
6. Uma ubuzwa ngemindeni yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini, chaza njengokungcono kakhulu emhlabeni.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu okumele uyikhumbule ukuthi uma uya emhlanganweni obalulekile, thatha nawe ngokwemvelo, ukhohlwa ukuziqhenya nokukhwabanisa ekhaya, khona-ke ukuqinisekiswa kokuqedelwa kokuzijwayeza kuqinisekisiwe kuwe.