Ngokuvamile ebuhlotsheni bomndeni kunezimo lapho umyeni ehlambalaza umkakhe. Kungani indoda ihlambalaza futhi ihlazisa umkakhe - ingqondo , njengesayensi, ayikwazi ukunikeza impendulo engavamile kulo mbuzo. Lapha konke kuxhomeke esimweni esithile futhi ukuthi ubuhlobo babalingani bokuqala bokuqala komndeni.
Indoda iyabiza futhi ihlazisa - iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo
Ngaphambi kokusebenzisa iseluleko esithile, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi kungani indoda ihlambalaza ihlazisa umkakhe. Kunezizathu eziningana zalesi senzakalo. Okuqhubekayo - ezinye zazo.
- Indoda inomuzwa wokuthi umuntu uqala ukungenelela enkulumweni yakhe nangesikhala sakhe. Indlela yokuphendula ngokuthuka komyeni - iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo kuleli cala sincishisiwe ukuba siyeke ukuqeqesha umuntu futhi simnike inkululeko eyengeziwe. Ukudoba, i-kebabs nokuphumula nabangani, lokhu kuyinto engekho umuntu ongayenza ngaphandle.
- Esinye isizathu esivamile sokuhlambalaza ukuntuleka komuntu ukuzimisela ukushada. Ngokuvamile lezi zenzakalo zibhekwa emibhangqwana lapho abashadile beye khona ukungena enkulumweni yokuqala, engacatshangelwe. Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, insimu yomshado, indoda ingathola ukuthi ayilungele ubunzima obuhlobene nokuphila komshado, noma ngisho nhlobo-ukuqonda ukuthi ayithandi lowo ayexhumane nayo impilo yakhe.
- Endaweni yesithathu kuhlu lwezizathu ezivame kakhulu zokuhlambalaza, umhawu uhlala ngokuziqhenya. Ngokuvamile indoda iqala ukuhawukela umkakhe, ingakulungeli ukuxoxa ngokukhululekile. Ngenxa yalokho, konke kuphazamiseka, kodwa ukungabaza nokukhalaza kuyaqhubeka kuhlushwa yiyo oshade naye. Ngenxa yalokho, uqala ukuhlazisa nokuthuka owesifazane wakhe.
- Esinye isizathu esenza indoda ihlambalaze futhi ilulaze ukwamukela lesi simo sengqondo kubesifazane ngokujwayelekile.
Mhlawumbe yilokho uyise ayeke wabheka umama wakhe. Ngenxa yalokho, indoda kusukela ebuntwaneni ibheka ukuziphatha okunjalo kube yinto evamile. Ngendlela, uma indoda ihlambalaza umkayo ngenxa yalesi sizathu - kungcono ukucabanga ngokushesha ngesahlukaniso.
Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo, kufanele uhambise umuntu ngokuthula nangokuzithoba engxoxweni engagwegwesi. Ngokwenza kanjalo, khumbula ukuthi amanye amadoda angase aqonde imizamo yakho yokukhuluma, njengendlela yokuwasebenzisa. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuqinisekisa ukuthi le ndoda yanquma ukuthi nguye, hhayi wena, owaqala le ngxoxo.
Ezimweni eziningi, ingxabano ingaxazululwa ngokuthula. Uma kungenjalo, khumbula ukuthi ngeke uphoqelelwe amandla.