Njengoba bekhulelwe, abesifazane abaningi baqala ukuzibuza-obani abazozalwa: umfana noma intombazane? Izihlobo nabangani bakhohlisa imibuzo "futhi ungathanda bani?" Futhi "ubiza kanjani?". Yebo, futhi umyeni manje bese ekhuluma ngephupho ngokuphathelene nendlalifa noma mayelana nenkosikazi kababa. Kanjani lapha ukuthi ungalingeka futhi ungazami izimpawu ezahlukene?
Thatha, oklanyelwe ukunquma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa intombazane owabelethile noma umfana, kuningi kakhulu. Abanye babo banezizathu ezimbalwa zesayensi zokwenza okuthile eMalmö, abanye bavele babangele ukumomotheka. Kodwa ugogo wethu wayekholelwa kubo, mhlawumbe ngeke kusilimaze? Kunoma yikuphi, lezi zimboni ezihlekisayo zizoqeda izinyanga ezinde zokulinda.
Ngakho-ke, izimpawu ezimbalwa zokukhulelwa njengomfana nentombazane:
- I-Toxicosis - uma owesifazane ehlupheka kakhulu kusuka ku-toxicosis ku-trimester yokuqala, amathuba okuzalwa kwentombazane aphezulu kakhulu. Kukholelwa ukuthi abafana kule plan balula ukunakekela;
- uhlobo lwesisu - uma isisu sinzima, umfana uzozalwa, uma isisu sezwa ohlangothini, lindela intombazane;
- ukunambitha okuthandwayo - ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, owesifazane udonsela owesifazane emanzini anosawoti, abukhali, aphilile; ekulindeni intombazane umama manje bese ephuka emnandi nefulawa;
- ukubukeka - uma owesifazane ekhunjulwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, intombazane yathatha ubuhle bayo. Lapho umfana ezalwa, abesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, baba ngcono kakhulu.
Yiqiniso, zonke lezi zibonakaliso kanye nezinye izibonakaliso ziyathandabuzwa, ngoba i-toxicosis ingabonwa kunoma yikuphi isimo, izintandokazi zokunambitheka komama zimelele, futhi ukuma kwesisu kuncike ekutheni isifuba kanye nezinye izici zesimo somzimba womama kanye nesimo lapho ingane ilele khona. Kodwa akukho okuvimbela ukudweba kulezi zibonakaliso okuthile okuwusizo ngokwayo.
Izindlela nezindlela zokukhulelwa kwentombazane noma umfana
Emibhangqwana esesiteji sokuhlela ukukhulelwa, unganika amathiphu ambalwa ukuthi ngandlela-thile ingasiza ekuhleleni ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa.
Ngakho-ke, ukukhulelwa kwengane ethile-intombazane noma umfana, udinga ukwazi usuku oluqondile lokuvuthwa. Uma ufuna ukuba umfana azalwe, abe nobulili emuva kwesikhathi hhayi ngaphambi kwamahora angu-24 ngaphambi kokuqala kwe-ovulation. Isidakamizwa sabantu sibonakala, kodwa sihlala, ngeshwa, hhayi isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke, kufanele bathole ithuba lokufika eqanda ngokushesha, ngaphandle kokulinda isikhathi eside ukukhululwa. Ukwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa komfana kungenzeka nakakhulu uma ulala ocansini kwezinye izimo: isithunywa sevangeli, ukuhlelwa kwendoda "ngemuva" kanye "nesitayela".
Ngokukhulelwa kwentombazane, izinto zihlukile. Kuyadingeka, futhi, ukwazi usuku lokuvuthwa, kepha ukulala ocansini izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwakhe. I-spermatozoa yesifazane ayinaselula, kepha iyanamandla kakhulu. Kungenzeka bangakwazi ukuhambisana nama-tadpoles abesilisa, kodwa abadinga ukubekezela. Bangahlala esibelethweni izinsuku ezingaba ngu-5, bekulindele ngesineke ukukhululwa kweqanda, kanti i-spermatozoa yesilisa isivele isanyamalala emncintiswaneni (wafa).
Ngokuqondene nokuhlelwa kokukhulelwa kwentombazane, ngakho-ke noma yikuphi ukungazitholi kahle kuyinto engcono kakhulu. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi owesifazane akatholi i-orgasm, ngoba imvelo enomsoco ingandisa isikhathi sokuphila kwesilisa sesilisa,
Kukhona futhi izincomo zokudla ekukhulelweni kwentombazane noma umfana. Ukuze ukhulelwe yintombazane, yondla umyeni izinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokukhipha umsoco ngokudla okumnandi, izithelo, i-confectionery engaqinisekisiwe, imifino ehlanzekile, amantongomane, amajusi wezithelo. Uma ufuna umfana, yidle futhi udla umyeni wakho ngezinhlobo zonke zenyama, ushokoledi omnyama, inhlanzi, ikhofi, ukhukhamba oqoshiwe.
Nakuba lokhu kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka, kodwa izifundo zibonisa ukuthi ema-80% amacala, imibhangqwana ehambisana neziphakamiso ezinomsoco ezitholwa njengomphumela wezocansi "ezithandwayo".