Ezweni lanamuhla, ezinzima futhi ezingenakuzwelana, akukho mibiko yokuphathwa kabi kwabazali nabanye abantu abanezingane, kanye nobugebengu obukulesi sisekelo, sekuyisikhathi eside kunokwenzeka ukukhululwa kwezindaba. Abakhohlwa ukungcwelisa imiphumela yokuhlukumeza izingane, njengokucindezeleka, ukubhema, ukukhuluphala ngokweqile noma ukuphuza utshwala, ubudlova noma ukuba yisisulu sobudlova, amantombazane ukukhulelwa okungahleliwe ngenxa yokuziphatha okubi ngokocansi, futhi ukuziphatha okubi kakhulu okufanayo izingane zakhe.
Izimbangela zokuhlukumeza izingane
Ngokuvamile isihluku sabazali siholela ezimweni ezibucayi zezimo: ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi, ukukhulelwa okungahleliwe. Ngezinye izikhathi isizathu siyisisekelo sokungazi ngokuthuthukiswa kwengane (kubonakala sengathi ukukhala komntwana akusizi ngalutho, ukujwayelana okunzima nebhodini, njll). Ngaphezu kwalokho, imodeli yobudlova basekhaya, njengomthetho, idluliselwa kusuka esizukulwaneni kuya esizukulwaneni.
Izimpawu zokuhlukumeza izingane
Noma yisiphi isenzo esibangela ukulimala kwengane singabhekwa njengento yokuhlambalaza. Kungaba ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo noma ngokobulili, futhi uhlobo lwesine lokuhlukumeza izingane aluyikulibala.
- Umntwana ohlukumezekile ngokomzimba njalo unamamaki emzimbeni wokushaywa, ukusika, ukulimaza, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlukunyezwa nokulimala kwangaphakathi.
- Ukuphoqa ingane ukuba icabange ukuthi ayifuni noma ingaphansi, imemeza, noma ingamnaki ngokuphelele, abazali bayabangela ukuhlambalaza ngokomzwelo okungabonakali iso, kodwa kungabi yingozi.
- Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kubangelwa ukuxhumana kocansi phakathi komuntu omdala nomntwana, ngenxa yokubonakaliswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
- Uma kwenzeka ingane ingenayo izinto ezidingekayo zasendlini, inqatshelwe ukunakekelwa kwezempilo nokuvikelwa, ayihambi esikoleni, ukunganakwa kwengane ingane.
Zonke lezi zinhlobo zokuphathwa kabi kwezingane ziyalwa ngumthetho, hhayi nje ukulahlwa amalungelo omzali. Abazali (kuye ngokuthi uhlobo lokuphathwa kabi) banikwa ukuphathwa, icala lomphakathi noma lobugebengu.
Ziyini izimpawu zokuhlukumeza izingane?
Bheka ingane, mhlawumbe uzobona izimpawu zokushaywa, ukuhlushwa. Isimo sengqondo esimpofu siboniswa isimo sokunganakekelwa kwengane, ikakhulukazi, isimo sempilo (i-dystrophy, pediculosis, ebonakalayo ekuthuthukiseni ngokomzimba). Kungaba kuhle ukubheka izimo zezindlu: izimo ezingahlanzekile zokugcina ingane, ukunganaki izindinganiso zokuhlanzeka, mhlawumbe ingane, futhi akukho ndawo yokulala kahle - konke lokhu kubonisa ukwelashwa okuhlukumeza nokuhlukumeza kwezingane emndenini.
Izibalo zokuhlukumeza izingane
Ngokwezibalo, ukubonakaliswa okuvame kakhulu kokuhlukunyezwa kwengane kunqotshwa ukudla noma isiphuzo (cishe ngo-20-24%), abazali abayishumi kuya ku-10-15% bavala inzalo yabo ebumnyameni, kanti cishe abangaba ngu-13% baxoshwa ngokuphelele emakhaya abo. Cishe ama-25-50% wezingane zibika ukuthi zibhekene nobudlova (ngokusho kwezibalo zamazwe ngamazwe), kanti izingane ezingaba ngu-30 000 ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-15 ziyizisulu zokubulala. Izibalo zokuxhashazwa kwezingane zibonisa ukuthi ingane ngokuvamile ihlose ukuvela kwemizwelo emibi yabazali, isibonelo eRussia ngo-2009, izingane ezingaba ngu-1.7 zibulewe, nabazali abangu-65 000 banqatshelwe amalungelo omzali, e-Ukraine isimo asikho kangcono kakhulu: Imindeni engaba ngu-80 000 ibhaliswe ngokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane.
Amacala okuhlukumeza izingane ayenzima ngempela. Esinye sezimo ezithinta kakhulu ezikhathini zamuva kwenzeka ngo-Mashi 2010. Inkantolo yesifunda yaseKrasnoyarsk ithola icala futhi yagwetshwa iminyaka engu-15 e-colony Cherepanov A.Ch. Abazali bentombazane bashiye ibhizinisi, beshiya ingane ngogogo. Ngobusuku, ugogo nomzukulu bafika kumakhelwane (wayehlala nomuntu ohlala naye, osolwa ngokulahlwa), ngemuva kokuphuza ugogo waya ekhaya (ukukhohlwa ngomzukulu wakhe), futhi ingane yahlala embhedeni owodwa noCherepanov. Ekuseni, intombazane eyesabisa yaqala ukumemeza, yabe isiphosa phansi futhi ngemva kokumemeza amantombazanyana amantombazane abangela amantombazane abulalayo ekhanda ngommese kanye nembazo.