Ukuhlolwa kokuzihlola

Kuzo zonke izindlela zokuphila komuntu, izinga lokuzihlonipha kwakhe lingahle linciphise futhi linciphise. Njengoba wazi, ukuzihlola ngokwakho kungukuhlolwa komuntu ngamunye, ngokuqondene naye, ezinhlangothini zakhe ezihle nezingalungile, futhi futhi kubonisa ukuthi umuntu ubhekisela kanjani ukubaluleka kwakhe njengomuntu ekuhlanganiseni nomphakathi.

Ukuhlolwa kokuzihlonipha kusiza ngokubheka ngokulinganayo imisebenzi yomuntu, ukumazisa ukuthi uqiniseka kanjani nokuthi uyazivuma yena. Ngenxa yalokhu kuhlola, umuntu ngamunye, uma esebenzisa izincomo zalolu hlu lwemibuzo, uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi angayibona kanjani amandla akhe afihliwe.

Ukuhlolwa kokuzihlonipha

Cabanga ngezibonelo ezimbalwa zokuhlolwa ezihloswe ukukusiza uzihlole wena, amakhono akho, ukuzihlonipha okuvela ngaphandle.

Udinga ukuzihlola ngokwakho, ngokwesilinganiso se-7-point for a number of characteristics (ubuhle, amandla, njll). Ngakho, ngaphambi kwakho uhlu lwezimfanelo ezingu-10. Kuye ngombono wakho ngawe, kufanele ukhethe ibhola elifanele ngokwakho (khumbula ukuthi udinga ukuhlola ebangeni kusukela ku-1 ukuya ku-7).

Nasi isibonelo sokwenza ukuhlolwa kwesinye sezici zokuhlolwa.

Ukukhula. Ububanzi bokuhlola buvela ku-1 iphuzu (ukukhula okuphansi) kuze kufike ku-7 (phezulu).

Cabanga ukuthi ngalesi sikali, ngokusho kokukhula, bonke abantu, kusukela ezansi kunazo zonke ukuya kubantu abaphakeme kakhulu, bekhona. Udinga, kuye ngokuthi yini ozibona ngokwakho, uzibeke noma usondelane nabantu abaphansi, noma kulabo abaphakeme, ngokufaka amaphuzu ahambelanayo. Ngakho-ke, ake sibheke ingxenye enkulu yokuhlolwa kokuzihlola.

1. Ikhwalithi yokuqala ukukhula. Isilinganiso sokulinganisa sisuka ku-1 kuya ku-7 (kusuka phansi ukuya phezulu).
2. Amandla. Amanothi amancane abhekisela ezimfanisweni ezibuthakathaka, kuya phezulu - eqinile.
3. Ezempilo. Kusukela ku-1 ukuya ku-7 - kusukela ekugula ukuya enempilo.
4. Ubuhle. Kusukela kwinombolo encane yamaphoyinti kuya phezulu. Kusuka kokubi ukuya enhle.
5. Umusa. Kusukela ezimweni ezimbi kuya ezinhle.
6. Isifundo. Kusukela kumuntu ongaphumeleli ukuya kumfundi omuhle kakhulu.
7. Injabulo. Ukungajabuli kuya ujabule.
8. Uthando oluthola ezweni langaphandle, abantu. Kusuka kubantu abangathandekayo, umhlaba nakwabathandekayo bonke abantu.
9. Isibindi. Owesaba uyindoda enesibindi.
10. Inhlalakahle. Umuntu ongaphumelelanga kuze kube yimpumelelo.

Ukuze uthole umphumela, udinga ukubala inani eliphelele lawo wonke amaphuzu owaphawule, amaphuzu. Ukuhlolwa kokuzihlola, kuye ngokuthi inani elitholiwe, kungaba:

• uma uthola inani elilingana namaphoyinti angama-40, khona-ke unesizotha esanele. Kubonakala ekuziphatheni ekuziphatheni, emsebenzini, ekuziphatheni. Uphatha amaphutha akho ngokufanele.
• Amaphuzu angu-46 kuya kwangu-59 - ukuthambekela kokuzihlonipha. Ukubonakaliswa kwalo kuwukuzethemba. Ngokuvamile uvame ukubheka ukuthi kuyadingeka ukulungisa amaphutha akho.
• 60 - 70 iphezulu kakhulu. Kubonakala ngokuziqhenya, ukuvezwa kwamakhono ayo, ngokungacabangi. Amaphutha akho ocabanga ukuthi abangelwa, okokuqala, ngezinto ezizungezile, kodwa ngokuqinisekile akuzona izinqumo zakho.
• Amaphoyinti angu-20 - 10 - aphansi. Kubonakala ngokungabi namandla, ngokungaqapheli amandla akho, ukungabi namusa. Ucabangela ukubukeka kwamaphutha ekuphileni kwakho ngenxa.

Kulolubuzo lwemibuzo ngezansi, udinga ukukhetha eyodwa yezinketho.

1. Uvame ukujwayele imicabango ebonisa ukuthi ushilo okuthile noma wenza okuthile.

   Impendulo: ngokuvamile (1 iphuzu) noma ngezinye izikhathi (3).

2. Phakathi nengxoxo nabantu abanobuqili, izenzo zakho:

   Impendulo: Uzozama ukweqa ubuqili bakhe (5) noma uzame ukususa ukunakekelwa kwakhe ngokushesha (1).

3. Kufanele ukhethe umbono owufanele kakhulu kuwe:

   Impendulo yilezi: "Inhlanhla yimbangela yokusebenza kanzima" (5), "Ukuphumelela kuyisimo esimisiwe" (1) noma "Umuntu kuphela, hhayi izimo, angathuthukisa isimo esinzima" (3).

4. Ulethwe nge-cartoon, wena:

   Impendulo: Uyojabula ngesipho (3), ukucasuka (1), ngesikhathi esizayo futhi kumngani wakho unike into enhle (4).

5. Uhlale ungenaso isikhathi esanele salutho?

   Impendulo: yebo (1), cha, (5), Angazi (3).

6. Ukukhetha isipho samafutha, wena:

Impendulo: Khetha ukuthi yini oyithandayo (5), lokho umuntu okuzalwa okuthandayo (3) noma amafutha okukhangisa (1).

7. Umelela izimo lapho uziphatha ngokungafani nakweqiniso:

   Impendulo: yebo (1), cha (5), angazi (3).

Lokhu kuhlolwa kokuzihlola kunemiphumela elandelayo:

• inani lamaphuzu avela ku-50 kuya ku-38 kubonisa ukuthi uyaqiniseka, kodwa ukulimala kwakho ukuthi ungumuntu ojulile ngokwakho;
• 37 - 24 - uyakwazi ukwethemba wena, uhlale ngokuvumelana nawe;
• 23-10 - ukuzisola, hhayi njalo unelisekile kuwe. Funda ukuzithanda wena.

Ngakho, ukulawula izinga lokuzihlonipha kwakho kulula kakhulu. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga kuphela ukwazi umgomo wakho wokuqala wokuzihlonipha, kubalwa ngosizo lwezivivinyo.