Imenenja yanoma yiliphi isilinganiso angeke lenzeke ngaphandle kokuba khona kwezimfanelo ezikhethekile. Kodwa inhlanganisela yabo kanye nokubonakaliswa kwazohluka kakhulu kangangokuthi umqondo wobuholi ohlelweni lokuphatha uhlaziywa ngamanani amaningi. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi abacwaningi basakwazi ukuvumelanisa ngencazelo ehlose kakhulu yalesi simo, ngakho-ke ngokuqonda kwayo kuphakanyiswa ukuba ujwayele izindlela eziningi ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Izinkomba eziyisishiyagalombili zobuholi ekuphathweni
Kusuka kumphathi kuyadingeka ikhono lokuhlanganisa imizamo yeqembu labantu ukufeza noma yimaphi umgomo. Okusho ukuthi umqondo wobuholi ekuphatheni ungaba mnandi ngemisebenzi ehlukahlukene. Lolu hlobo lobuhlobo lusekelwe ekusebenzisaneni komphakathi, ngokudlala indima "yabalandeli-abaholi", abakho ngaphansi lapha, ngoba abantu bamukela ukubaluleka kwesinye sezicabango zabo ngaphandle kwengcindezi ebonakalayo.
Kunezinhlobo ezimbili zobuholi ekuphathweni:
- umthelela ohlelekile ngenxa yokuthunyelwe okumangalisayo;
- isiqondiso esingakahlelekile - isiqondiso ngenxa yobuhle bomuntu siqu.
Kukholelwa ukuthi imiphumela engcono kakhulu etholakala ngokuhlanganisa zonke izindlela.
Uma ubheka lo mkhuba kusuka ekubukeni kwezingqinamba, ungakwazi ukuhlukanisa eziyisisekelo eziyisishiyagalombili.
- Isimo . Kuhilela ukushintsha indlela, kuye ngezimo, ngaphandle kokubhekisela kohlobo lomuntu . Isekelwe emcimbini wokuthi esimweni ngasinye isimo esiyingqayizivele sobuholi siyadingeka.
- "Umuntu omkhulu . " Kuchaza ubuciko bobuholi ngezinto eziphilayo, isethi esiyingqayizivele yezimfanelo ezitholakala kusukela ekuzalweni.
- Izitayela zobuholi . Ukwabelana ngombuso ohloniphekile kanye nentando yeningi, ngokusho kwesinye isici kukhona ukugxila emsebenzini nasemuntwini.
- I-Psychoanalytic . Yenza umdwebo phakathi kwezindima emndenini nasekuphileni komphakathi. Kukholelwa ukuthi indlela yokuziphatha yabazali ihambelana nezikhundla zobuholi, kanye nezingane - kubalandeli.
- Ukuziphatha . Uthi ubuholi bufundiswa, abugxila ezimfanelweni, kodwa ngezenzo.
- Ukuthengiselana . Kuthatha ukushintshanisana okuzuzisayo phakathi komholi nabalandeli, lapho ithonya lisekelwe khona.
- Amabutho namathonya . Ukubaluleka kwabalandeli nezinhlangano kunqatshelwe, umholi uba ngumuntu ophakathi, obeka zonke izinsiza kanye nokuxhumana ezandleni zakhe.
- Ukuguquguquka . Amandla omphathi ancike ekugqugquzelweni kwabalandeli nokuhlukaniswa kwemibono ejwayelekile phakathi kwabo. Lapha umholi uyunithi yokudala, ejwayele ukuhlela amasu.
Inkolelo ngayinye inikeza umholi ngezinhlobo ezimbalwa zokuziphatha, kodwa ngomkhuba, omunye wabo akavame ukusetshenziswa ngokuphelele, ngokuvamile okubili noma ngaphezulu kuhlanganisiwe.