Ngokuvamile, ukukhathala ngemuva kosuku olukhuni lomsebenzi kukunqaba ukugeza izitsha nezingubo ezingcolile. Emahlombe owesifazane, imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi ivame ukuphakanyiswa, ngoba emva komsebenzi kuyadingeka ukondla wonke umndeni emva kwalokho kukhona izitsha eziningi ezingavundiwe ongafuni ukugeza. Kodwa kuningi ukwamukelwa ukuthi awukwazi ukushiya izitsha ezingcolile ebusuku. Ake sibheke ukuthi okhokho bethu baphendula kanjani umbuzo wokuthi kungani ungashiyi izitsha ezingcolile ebusuku.
Ngokuvumelana nokuhumusha kuyakwamukelwa, lokhu kungabangela izingxabano ezingenasisekelo nokuhlukumeza ukuzwana emphakathini. Ezikhathini ezidlule, ukuze ugweme izingxabano ezingadingekile, abesimamekazi bazama njalo ukugeza wonke amapuleti namapane angcolile ngaphambi kokuphumula. Isibonakaliso sezidlo ezingcolile zobusuku sithi amapulangwe angcolile angakwesokunxele athola amandla amabi nemimoya emibi, engena ngokushesha ezingqondweni zabantu futhi iqhubhise ama-squabbles, ama-scandals. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungabangela ngisho nokuphuka ebuhlotsheni. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kusihlwa amademoni adla izitsha ezingcolile, emva kwalokho agcwalisa amandla awo amabi ngokuqonda kommeleli wesigamu esiphezulu sabantu, okwenza kube nobudlova , okuyinto ngokushesha eholela ezihlakalweni. Indoda kulesi simo ingaqala ngisho nokusongela umkakhe noma ukusebenzisa amandla emzimbeni.
Futhi chaza ukuvinjelwa izitsha ezingcolile nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi umama omuhle uzohlala ehlanzekile endlini njalo, futhi uthuli, ukungcola kungabangela ukukhathazeka kunoma yimuphi umuntu osegumbini elinjalo. Indoda ezingeni elingaqondakaliyo ibona owesifazane njengomgcini wendawo, futhi uma engakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi ehlose ukuphuma endlini, ingabangela ukufutheka. Ngokushesha lo muntu uzovele ehamba,
Ngingashiya izitsha ezingcolile ebusuku?
Izimpawu zezitsha ezingcolile zizofanelekile kulawo mahlakalo, futhi uma ushiya izitsha ezingavuthiwe ku-daishisher. Inkolelo enjalo iyasiza kakhulu, njengoba ifundisa ukuhlanzeka nokuchithwa. Isibonakaliso sokuthi awukwazi ukushiya izitsha ezingcolile ebusuku sizofundisa owesifazane ukuba ahlanze hhayi ngaphambi kokuba alale, kodwa futhi ngokushesha ngemuva kwakhe kanye nawo wonke amalungu omndeni, okuzosiza wonke umuntu. Yingakho ukugcina noma ukugcina inkolelo enjalo kuyindaba eyimfihlo kubo bonke abantu, lokhu kuyindlela enhle yokunciphisa izingxabano ezivame ukuvela emhlabathini.