Ngokuvamile kunalokho, amaphupho lapho kwakudingeka sikhale khona kakhulu, ngokuphambene nalokho, sithwale ulwazi oluhle. Ukuze uthole incazelo enembile futhi enwetshiwe, kubalulekile ukuzama ukukhumbula ezinye imininingwane zesakhiwo kanye nemizwelo ehlangenwe nakho.
Kungani uphupha ukukhala?
Abaningi abaningi bavuma ukuthi iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukuphela kwebhande "elimnyama" empilweni. Ngokushesha zonke izinkinga zizoxazululwa, ukudumazeka kuzodlula, futhi uzojabulela ukuphila. Iphupho elifanayo lingabonisa isifiso sokuthola ukwesekwa nothando kwabanye. Uma kwakufanele ukhale kakhulu ephusheni, ungalindela ukuthola inzuzo enkulu, futhi kuyoba usizo kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunethuba elikhulu lokunyusa izinga lesigaba noma ukwandisa ibhizinisi. Isizathu sezinyembezi sasihlambalaza - yisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukuthi ungathembela ekuhlonipheni nasekuboneni abanye.
Uma kwadingeka ukhale kakhulu ephusheni ngenxa yezenzo zomunye umuntu, umhumushi wephupho uhumusha le ndaba njengesixwayiso abanye abangalimaza. Umbono ebusuku, lapho umuntu ekhala khona ethuneni, kubonisa ukuthi isinqumo esithathwe empeleni siyoshintsha kakhulu into ethile ekuphileni kwakhe. Noma kunjalo kungabonisa ukuqala kwesigaba esisha. Uma uphupha ukuthi othile wayekhala kakhulu, khona-ke uzothola izindaba ezomphumela omuhle empilweni. Umbono ebusuku, lapho ukhalela khona, futhi konke kuhambisane nezinsipho eziqinile, nokuphinda, ukuprofetha impumelelo kuyo yonke imizamo. U-Snyknik uthi ngokubonisa ukuphikelela okuncane, ungakwazi ukufeza imigomo engavamile.
Ukukhala kakhulu ephusheni ehlezi embhedeni, kusho, kubalulekile ukulungiselela izinkinga ezinkulu. Ngentombazane, umbono wobusuku, lapho umntwana ekhala khona, uthembisa ukudumazeka kumuntu othandekayo. Uma ingane ikwazi ukuzola, konke kuzophela ngokuphepha.