Kukholelwa ukuthi ubuthongo bungasitshela ukuthi yiziphi izenzakalo ezingenzeka empilweni yangempela, abaningi banesifo uma bephupha ukuthi bashushiswa. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ngabe lo mbono uthathwa njengesibonakaliso esiyingozi, ake sibone ukuthi kunjani ukubalekela kumuntu nokuthi ungayichaza kanjani le ndaba.
Kungani uphupha ukugijima nokufihla kumuntu ojwayele?
Into yokuqala okudingeka yenziwe ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho ukukhumbula ukuthi ngabe umlandeli wakho ujwayelene nani. Isibonelo, uma owesifazane ephusheni efakwa ngumyeni wakhe noma umthandi wakhe, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi kukhona impikiswano eseduze nayo, engase iphele ngokuphumula ebuhlotsheni .
Uma umshushisi ejwayele kuwe, kodwa engenawo ubuhlobo obuseduze noma obuseduze nawe, umbono ungakuxwayisa ngengozi yokukhohliswa, yingakho ungaphupha ngokubalekela indoda ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho. Ngisho nalapho umfana ebalekela osebenza naye noma umngane ephusheni, iphupho libhekwa njengelibi, futhi empeleni isimo singase siphakame,
Kungani uphupha ukubalekela indoda engaziwa?
Umbono onjalo ubonisa ukuthi isikhathi esinzima siyeza, futhi ngokwemali yezimali. Umphumela wecala uxhomeke emininingwaneni yephupho, uma umuntu ekwazi ukufihla, empeleni uzobhekana ngokushesha nezinkinga, futhi, uma kwenzeka ebanjwe, kubalulekile ukulungiselela ukuthi isikhathi esiyinkimbinkimbi sizodonsela isikhathi eside.
Ngendlela, izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi intombazane encane leli phupho lingabonakalisa ukwesaba kwakhe kobudlelwane namadoda. Isakhiwo esinjalo singase sibonise ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo, ngenxa yalokho owesifazane ayeke ukwethemba labafana futhi waqala ukugwema ubuhlobo obuseduze nabo.