Kukholelwa ukuthi onkulunkulukazi ngosuku lwesakramente bathola ukuxhumana okungokomoya okhethekile nomntwana, yingakho, ngomqondo wendabuko, kufanele bazithathele izindleko eziyisisekelo zokubamba lesi senzakalo esibucayi. Cabanga ngalokho abanikazi bakaNkulunkulu abanikeza ekubhapathizweni nokuthi yini abayiphendulayo.
Yini enika uNkulunkulu godfather?
Uma sikhuluma ngalokho okufanele sizinikezwe ngu-godfather, asikwazi ukuqaphela ukuthi nguye ophethe izindleko ezinkulu kunazo zonke ezithintekayo:
- ukuthenga isiphambano sokubhapathizwa;
- ukukhokhela isakramente esontweni (noma wenze umnikelo wayo);
- inhlangano yokugubha lomcimbi (idili).
Uma sikhuluma ngezinto zangempela zokuphila kwethu, konke okunye lapha kuhlukile. Njengomthetho, bakhokhela isakramente, futhi ukugubha kwayo kubazali ngokwabo. Futhi uma benquma ukuthi isiphambano kufanele sibe igolide, khona-ke bavame ukuzithola. Kodwa-ke, uma abazali bevumelana ngenguqulo yesiphambano ukuthi ungakwazi ukukhokhela, lesi sipho singakwazi futhi kufanele sikhethwe ngu-godfather.
Uyini unkulunkulukazi?
Unkulunkulukazi wayenenhlanhla ngaphezu kukayise, futhi isakramente ayidingi imfucuza kakhulu kuye. Uhlu lwalokho onkulunkulu okufanele banikeze lukhawulelwe izikhundla ezinjalo:
- i-kryzhma (indwangu ekhethekile, efaka ingane ngemuva kokugeza);
- ihembe le-christening noma igqoko (mhlawumbe into kufanele ibe yindlu noma ifakwe ngesandla);
- Icon of the saint ogama lakhe unikezwa ingane lapho ubhapathizwa.
Ngisho noma ngabe uyazi ukuthi unkulunkulukazi banikezwe isipho se- christening , futhi ukulungele ukwenza lezi zipho, kusengaphambili, namanje uxhumane nabazali bese uthola imibono yabo kuwo. Mhlawumbe, abafisi ukugcina zonke izinkolelo zibe yizicathulo futhi bazokunikela ukuba uveze esinye isethulo, futhi konke okudingayo ukuze uthole ukristu sekuvele kutholakale.