Ngokuvamile, ngemva kokuxabana okukhulu, kunzima ukuxhuma kabusha ngoba kukhona ukwesaba ukuhlambalaza. Kulolu daba, isiluleko sokubuyisana sizokwamukeleka kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zingasetshenziswa uma imizamo yangaphambilini yokusungula oxhumana nabo ayiphumelelanga.
Umlutha wokuvumelanisa nomyeni wakhe
Ukuze wenze umkhuba, kufanele ube nengcezu yendwangu eluhlaza emnyama ebeka phansi. Beka isithombe kuye kuye. Ngesandleni sokunene thatha ikhandlela lingcono esontweni bese ulikhanyisa. Mshayela eduze nesithombe ngeso lengqondo bese usho icebo lokubuyisana lo mbhangqwana:
"Kwangathi injabulo ebusweni bakho ibonakale (igama lomgomo), ake lihlanze umphefumulo wakho oqhakazile (igama lomgomo), vumela izingqondo zakho ezibukhali zikhanyise. Makungabikho ukuphikisana emhlabeni wonke, ububi bubi, yebo ukuhlambalaza kuyisiphukuphuku. Ngizokwenza impilo yakho ibe yintando yami, ubungane engikunika wona, okuqhubekayo. Yiba njalo. "
Isakhiwo kumele sifunde izikhathi eziyisishiyagalolunye. Kubalulekile ukwenza imibuthano emithathu ngekhandlela ngalinye ekufundeni ngalunye. Bese uqeda lelikhandlela, thatha isithombe ezandleni zakho bese uthi la mazwi:
"Uthando nokufudumala kungena enhliziyweni yakho, injabulo ikhanyisa impilo yakho, indlela yami ikhanyisa inhliziyo yakho. Ngithethelele inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomgomo), kusukela phansi kwenhliziyo yami elikhanyayo, kusukela emehlweni amehlo ami, kusuka enhliziyweni yami. Umphefumulo wakhe uzoqala ukucula ngenjabulo, inhliziyo yakhe izoqala ukushisa ngenjabulo. Ubungane buyosibopha ngokuqinile, hhayi namuhla noma kusasa, kodwa kuze kube phakade. I-Kanet ehlobo lokufutheka okubabayo, iyoshiya ukuhlukana okubabayo, ichithe ingcindezi emoyeni. Njengokuthi singabantwana abancane, singenakulinganiswa, njengezinyoni zasehlobo, njengezilwandle zasolwandle. Njengoba kushiwo, kanjalo kuyoba njalo. Amen. "
Isithombe sihambisana nezinto eziluhlaza futhi sibeke endaweni lapho kungekho muntu oyothola khona. Ngemva kwesikhashana, ubuhlobo buzoqala ukuthuthukisa. Ungasebenzisa le nkambo ukudala ubuhlobo nomunye umuntu.
Umlutha wokuvumelanisa nomngane noma umngane
Thatha amaphepha amancane amathathu, bese ubhala kuwo:
- igama lakho;
- igama lesithandwa;
- Amazwi amabi achaza ubuhlobo ngesikhathi esithile, isibonelo, "intukuthelo", "ukuthuka", njll.
Amahlamvu ahlelwe emgqeni owodwa ukuze amagama aphethe, futhi phakathi nendawo ishidi enezici. Emva kwalokho, tshela isenzo esinjalo:
- "Umlumbi omubi udlulile phakathi kwethu, umnyama omnyama ugijimile, ububi buphendukele omunye nomunye, ubungane buye buhlanganisa futhi buvimbela ukuba singaqondani, asihambisani. Manje mina, ngiyabuqeda ububi, ngibhubhisa leyo nzondo, ngiyikhohlwa kuze kube phakade. Futhi, ukuthula nobungane buzobuyela kithi, amehlo ethu azophendukela. "
Bese uqeda leli qabunga ngamazwi angalungile, bese ususa ama-scraps emoyeni. Shiya ngamagama agqoke bese efakwa endaweni ephephile.
Umlutha wokuvumelanisa nomthande wakho
Ngalesi senzakalo, udinga indwangu eluhlaza, owusakaza etafuleni, bese ufaka isithombe sothandekayo wakho kuso. Thatha ikhandlela, bese ushayela
"Injabulo iyacaca, ithande ukukhanya, ukukhanya kwelanga makukukhanyise, ukuphikisana nokubi kuphenduke ukukhanya, ukuphila kukhanyisa isifungo esingcwele."
Yisho isigaba 9 izikhathi, bese uhola lelikhandlela ngewashi bese uthi izikhathi ezingu-9:
"Inhliziyo yakho uthando lungafaka, injabulo yothando impilo yakho iyakhanyisa, wangithethelela umphefumulo wakho, futhi ngilwela futhi yonke inhliziyo yami kimi. Vumela inhliziyo yakho ihlabelele ngenjabulo, uthando lukhanya futhi luhlala emhlabeni. "
Emva kwalokho, awukwazi ukwesaba ukuya ekubuyisaneni nomuntu wakho othandekayo, ngoba konke kuyoba kuhle.