Ukuhlanza kuhlotshaniswa nokuhlanzwa nokukhululwa kwezinto ezingadingekile. Amaphupho anomqondo ofanayo, lapho le nqubo iqhubeka khona. Ukuze uthole ukwaziswa okuningiliziwe, kubalulekile ukucabangela ezinye imininingwane zesakhiwo.
Iyini isizathu sokuhlanza?
Uma kwadingeka uphume ehhovisi, kufanele ulindele ushintsho lwendawo yomsebenzi. Umbono ebusuku, lapho kwakudingekile ukuhlanza udoti emgwaqweni, ubeka umuntu isifiso sokwakha ubuhlobo nabantu abakuzungezile. Ukuhlanza amathuna ephusheni kusho ukuvivinywa okuzayo futhi, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi kuzophathelene nokuhlukaniswa kwempahla. Iphupho lokuhlanza iqhwa egcekeni lisho ukuthi empilweni yangempela isikhathi esiningi namandla kusebenza. Uma sikwazi ukugcina indlela omunye umuntu asusa ngayo, khona-ke lophupho uvame ukusebenzisa abanye abantu ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe.
Ukuhlanza endlini kufana kanjani?
Uma kwakudingeka wenze ukuhlanza kwentwasahlobo ephusheni, khona-ke kufanele ulungise izinguquko ezinkulu ekuphileni, futhi kuzoba ngcono. Iphupho, lapho ngesikhathi sokucwenga kudingeke ukuba ushushe iwebhu, umuntu ufisa isifiso sokwakha ubuhlobo nabathandekayo. Enye incazelo evelele yalephupho kuyisibonakaliso sezinkinga eziqoqiwe. Uma ukuhlanza kubangela imizwelo emihle, futhi umphumela ukwanelisa konke okulindelekile - lokhu kuyisignali enhle, ekhombisa izinguquko ezinhle.
Ukuhlanza endlini kufana kanjani?
Iphupho elinjalo lingathathwa ngencomo ukuthi kubalulekile ukubuyekezwa imibono yomuntu empilweni bese ibeka izinto ezibalulekile ngokuhlukile.
Kungani uphupha ukuhlanza indlu yomunye umuntu?
Umbono wobusuku obunjalo kusho ukuthi maduzane kuyadingeka ukulindela izindaba ezingathandeki ezithinta izindaba zamanje. Uma kufanele uchithe udoti endlini yomunye umuntu, lo mphupho uzinike isikhathi esiningi sokuxazulula izinkinga zabanye abantu, ngenxa yokuthi abantu abaseduze bahlupheka.