Ukuphuza utshwala wesifazane yisifo esibi esiholela ekubhujisweni kokuthula kwangaphakathi nempilo. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu uzitholela phansi, alahlekelwe abangane, asebenze nezinye izingxenye ezibalulekile zokuphila okujabulisayo. Ukubhekana nale nkinga kungaba, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela izimpawu zokuqala zokudakwa ngokweqile , ukusiza owesifazane ukuba aphume ebhukwini eliyingozi. Ngokwezibalo unyaka nonyaka le nkinga ithola kancane, futhi abesifazane basebenzisa utshwala ngokushesha kunamadoda. Kunezizathu eziningana ezibalulekile zokuthi kungani owesifazane ehlunga ibhodlela futhi kaningi lihlobene nokushaqeka ngokomzwelo, ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka njalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zonke izinsolo zingase zibe izinkinga zomphakathi, kanye nezinkinga emndenini.
Izimpawu zokudakwa ngokweqile kwabesifazane
"Uthando" lwezokwephuza utshwala luqala ngokudakwa ngokweqile, okubhekiswe ekusetshenzisweni okudakayo njalo, kodwa akukho ukuxhaswa kwezidakamizwa. Izibonakaliso eziyinhloko zokudakwa ngokweqile, okumhlukanisa nomuntu ongapheli, ukuthi owesifazane uphuza ngokuthanda futhi angakwazi ukulawula umthamo. Usakwazi ukuyeka ukuphuza utshwala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma uphuza utshwala obuningi, izimpawu zokudakwa zikhona.
Ngokuvamile, kunezigaba ezimbili ekuthuthukisweni kokuxhomeka, okuhluke hhayi kuphela ebubini bezinkinga, kodwa nakwezinye izici. Iningi labesifazane bazama ukufihla uthando lwabo utshwala kwabanye, ngakho bakhetha ukuphuza yedwa. Kulesi sigaba, kukhona umuzwa okhohlisayo wokuthi utshwala uletha ukuthula. Izimpawu zokuqala zangaphandle zokuphuza ngokweqile owesifazane zingafihlwa ngempumelelo ngosizo lwezimonyo, kepha emva kwesikhathi isimo siba sibi nakakhulu, futhi isisekelo asizisi. Kukhona ukuvuvukala kobuso, kunezikhwama ezinkulu ngaphansi kwamehlo nezindawo ezibomvu esikhumbeni, kanye nokuwohloka isimo sezinwele nezinzipho. Noma kunjalo kukhona ukuthuthumela kwezandla. Owesifazane uyeka ukuziqaphela, ngakho ubonakala engajabule. Izibonakaliso ezingokwengqondo zokuphuza utshwala besifazane ezinkathini zokuqala zihlanganisa ukubukeka kokucasula, ukukhubazeka kwengqondo kanye nesifiso sokuba yedwa ngokwakho. Isithakazelo sakhe siyashintsha kakhulu.
Uma lesi simo siphuthumayo, sisho ngokuxhomeka kwesibili noma okunzima ngokomzimba, okungukuthi, lapho umzimba usujwayele utshwala. Owesifazane ekuseni uzobhekana nokugula okuhlukahlukene, ongayilahla okwesikhashana ngokuphuza umthamo omusha. Izimpawu zangaphandle zokudakwa ngokweqile, ezichazwe ngenhla, ziyanda, futhi isikhumba sithola umthunzi ophuzi, futhi izibonakaliso zokuguga ziba ngaphezulu. Isigaba sesibili sokuxhomeka kotshwala sithinta kakhulu izitho zangaphakathi nemisebenzi yomzimba. Njengoba kungekho ukulawula phezu kwesilinganiso sokuphuza utshwala, kuhlale kuwukudakwa komzimba. Ukushaya okukhulu kuwela esibindi futhi kwandisa ingozi yokuthuthukisa i-hepatitis kanye ne- cirrhosis . Imiphumela engalungile yotshwala emisebenzini yokuzala, isimo se-cardiovascular system, kanye nesisu kanye namathumbu.
Manje mayelana nesimo sengqondo sabesifazane, uma utshwala kulesi sigaba sesibili. Amangqamuzana ebuchopho athola umthwalo osindayo, obangela i-necrosis. Ngenxa yalokho, owesifazane ubhekene nezinkinga, i-paranoia, nesifo sengqondo se-dementia. Ngokuphindaphindiwe, kukhona ukuhluleka ememori futhi wonke amanani afakwe kumuntu ojwayelekile alahlekile. Kukhona ukuchithwa kotshwala okubhubhisa impilo yowesifazane, futhi uthola ezansi.
Umbono wokuthi ukuphuza ngokweqile kwabesifazane akuyona inganekwane, futhi ukuze ulondoloze umuntu onokwethenjelwa ngokweqile, kubalulekile ukuthola inkinga ngesikhathi futhi uxhumane nesikhungo esikhethekile.