Naphezu kokuthi imithi, kubonakala sengathi ayimi, nanamuhla azikho izindlela eziphelele zokuhlela ukuzalwa komntwana ocansini othile. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, kunezeluleko eziningi nezincomo eziwusizo ezingasiza ukucabanga ngekusasa lomfana noma intombazane. Ngesikhathi sokuqothulwa, ingane yengane eyodwa noma enye izalwa kaningi kunenqubo yemvelo yemvelo, noma kunjalo, futhi kunamathuba amakhulu okungahambi kahle.
Eminyakeni eminingi, abantu abaningi basebenzisa izindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuhlela ubulili bezingane ezizayo. Eminye imibhangqwana eshadile ibambelela ekudleni okukhethekile, abanye-bafune usizo kubalingisi bezinkanyezi kanye nekhalenda yenyanga, kanti abanye bazama ukuthola impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ubani ozoba nayo, kumatafula ahlukene.
Ingabe kufanelekile ukwethemba amatafula okukhulelwa?
Abantu abaningi banethemba lokuthi bangakwazi ukuhlela ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ingane eyodwa yocansi noma enye isebenzisa isitayela seShayina noma yaseJapane, itafula leqembu legazi, kanye nesikhathi sikababa noma umama. Yiqiniso, empeleni, lokhu akukude neze. Odokotela abaningi bayavuma ukuthi lezo zindlela zakhiwe kuphela ngombono wamathuba futhi azixhaswa nanoma yiziphi amaqiniso nezesayensi zesayensi, ngakho-ke ukuchithwa kokunquma ubulili bosizo lwabo kungaba ngu-50%.
Naphezu kwalokhu, amathebula anjalo asetshenziswe iminyaka eminingi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ngezindlela zaseJapane nezamaShayina, ezisekelwe ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka yokuhlangenwe nakho kokubheka ochwepheshe baseMpumalanga. Ukwethemba noma ukungathembi amatafula okukhulelwa ngokuqinisekile kuyindaba yangasese kubo bonke abantu. Kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu kufanele aphathe izindlela ezifana nehlaya noma umdlalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kufanele kuqashelwe futhi ukuthi nakuba kungekho ithebula elilodwa lokukhulelwa kwengane yomntwana ingu-100%, abantu abaningi babike ukuthi banomntwana ofanayo, okwakushiwo yilokho noma leyo nqubo.
Ithebula le-Chinese lokunquma ubulili bomntwana
Itafula laseChina lihlanganisa incazelo yocansi yengane ezayo eneminyaka yobudala nomama wokukhulelwa:
Ukuze uyisebenzise, kwanele ukukhetha ubudala bomama ozayo ngosuku lokukhulelwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, nasemgqeni ongenhla - inyanga lapho kwenzeka. Iseli emgwaqweni wedatha yasekuqaleni izokutshela ukuthi ngubani omele - intombazane noma umfana.
Ithebula laseJapane
Incazelo yezocansi zomntwana etafuleni laseJapane iyakubheka inyanga yokukhulelwa, kanye nezinyanga lapho umama ozayo kanye noyise wengane bazalwa khona. Ukuze uyisebenzise, udinga ukwenza okulandelayo:
- Okokuqala, usebenzisa izinsuku zokuzalwa zamamama nabomama esikhathini esizayo, kufanele unqume inombolo kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-12 ngokwetafula elilandelayo:
- Okulandelayo, udinga ukusebenzisa ithebula elihlukile:
Emgqeni walo ophezulu, thola inombolo etholakala esinyathelweni sokuqala, bese uyiqhathanisa nenyanga yokukhulelwa kwengane. Ama-ticks amaningi obulili obuhlukile asemkhakheni wezilinganiso, kuphakama amathuba ukuthi lo mbhangqwana uzoba nomfana noma intombazane, ngokulandelana.
Ithebula ngeqembu legazi lomzali
Enye yezinto ezilula kakhulu futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, amatafula angathembekile yithebula leqembu legazi labazali besikhathi esizayo:
Ukunquma ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa lulula kakhulu - bheka nje lokho okulotshwe esitokisini emkhakheni wegqa nekholomu ehambelana namaqembu egazi omama nobaba. Odokotela abaningi bacabanga ukuthi le ndlela ingabi nangqondo, njengoba, njengoba kuyaziwa, abazali abahlukene babazali abafanayo bangazalwa, naphezu kokuthi iqembu legazi alishintshi ngenkathi yokuphila.
Kukhona amakhalenda ambalwa ahlukene, amatafula kanye namanye amasu avumela ukunquma ngamathuba aphezulu okuzozalwa emndenini omusha - umfana noma intombazane. Okwamanje, ungathukutheli uma izibikezelo zingavumelani, ngoba into esemqoka ukuthi ingane iphilile, futhi uzothanda indodana kanye nendodakazi efanayo.