Eminyakeni yamuva, izingane zengqondo ziye zazwa izikhalazo ezivela kubazali ngezingane zabo, okuthiwa, ngokusho komama nabesilisa, abakwazi ukuhlala bodwa. Izingane zanamuhla zifanelana kahle nesigqi sokuphila, ziveza zonke izibikezelo ezingacabangeki nezingenakucatshangwa zabazali bazo mayelana nentuthuko yabo. Noma kunjalo, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi kunezimo lapho umsebenzi ongeyona nje isici somntwana, kodwa isifo esibi kakhulu sesimiso sezinzwa: ukunakekelwa kokungaboni kahle kokugula (ADHD).
Ungasiza kanjani ingane engasebenzi kahle?
Okokuqala, udinga ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakho idinga yini usizo lochwepheshe - mhlawumbe lokhu kuyisici se-psyche.
Nazi izibonakaliso abazali abangazibona i-ADHD:
- ingane ayifuni lapho iselashwa;
- evame ukuhlakazeka, angaqala futhi angaqedi umusho;
- ngokuvamile ulahlekelwa izinto;
- uphazanyiswa yiziphi izici ezingenzeka (isikhathi eside kakhulu sigxile);
- Ingane engasebenzi kahle ayikwazi ukuthi yenzeni ngemisebenzi edinga ukuhlushwa isikhathi eside nokucindezeleka kwengqondo, ilahlekile;
- njengomthetho, uyaphazamisa wonke umuntu ozungezile emsebenzini (lapho esebenza esifundweni);
- izingane ezine-ADHD zibekezela kakhulu /
Uma usola ukuxilongwa okunjalo kumntanakho, kungcono ukubonisana nodokotela, uzokusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi ungaqala kanjani ukubhekana nale nkinga (nangaphambili, kungcono).
Indlela yokufundisa ingane engasebenzi kahle?
Okokuqala kufanele ube nesineke, izinkinga zakho futhi awujwayele uze uhlangabezane nesikole. Inkinga ebaluleke kunazo zonke yezingane ezine-ADHD ukuthi akubona bonke othisha esikoleni nasezikoleni zasenkulisa ukuthi bangakwazi kanjani ukuxhumana nengane engasebenzi kahle. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukufundisa ngokujulile ingane enjalo, zama ukugcina lapho esesimweni esikhululekile kakhulu, lapho engakwazi ukugxilisa isikhathi eside (noma ugxile nakancane). Bese kancane kancane uqala ukwakha imodi yosuku lomkhuhlane.
Nazi amathiphu awusizo kubazali bengane engasebenzi kahle.
Ukuze ubhekane nengane engasebenzi kahle, kudingeka uhlele umbuso wosuku ngokucacile ngangokunokwenzeka. Ingane ene-ADHD ihlale ihamba futhi ingeke ihlale ihlala okwesibili, ingane ingeke isabele lapho isicelo sokuhlala nokuthula. Ngakho, usuku kufanele lulandele njalo isimo esithile:
- Vuka uphinde ulale ngesikhathi esibekiwe; ngaphambi kokuba ulale umntwana olele kahle, ulungiselele indebe yobisi olufudumele ngobusi, uqoqe ukugeza okufudumele;
- Konke okwenzekayo, kuvele nomkhuba wakho (indaba yokulala, ukugeza izandla ngaphambi kokudla, inkomishi yetiyi ngaphambi kwamakilasi, njll), khona-ke ingane engasebenzi kahle ngeke iqinisekiswe, ngoba isesigqi sayo futhi ayikho izimpawu zengozi;
- zonke izenzo kufanele zibikezeleke ngokuphelele, ngakho-ke ingqondo ingalali futhi ingane ayizizwa inganaki. Nini
ingane engakwazi ukusebenza kahle iyazi ukuthi uzokwenzani ngaso sonke isikhathi sosuku lwakhe, isimiso sezinzwa siqala ukusebenza "ngaphandle kokugqithisa", ukuze ukwazi ukuzungeze ama-hysteric futhi uvikele ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo.
Ukukhulisa ingane engasebenzi kahle kunzima kakhulu njengoba ungase ucabange. Indlela yokubhekana nengane efanelekile:
- zama ukuqhuba amakilasi ngesikhathi esiqine kakhulu, ngaphandle kokuguqula ngaphandle kwesizathu esibaluleke kakhulu;
- Unganiki i-rhinestone umthwalo omkhulu, qala ngemizuzu embalwa, bese ufaka kancane kancane;
- ngaphambi komsebenzi konke kufanele kulungiselelwe, uma ubamba okwesikhashana, ukunakwa kwengane kulahlekile ngokungenakwenzeka;
- Ungazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezingane ezingasebenzi uma engaqapheli. Mhlawumbe, kuyadingeka ukushintsha indlela yokufaka - cabanga ngalokho okunye okumele kuthathe ingane yakho, ukuthi uyothanda okuningi.