Indlela yokukhohlisa indoda eshadile?

Kwabesifazane abathile, akukho lutho olulula kunokunyenga indoda eshadile, nokuthi bayakwenza kanjani, yiziphi izindlela abazisebenzisayo, sizoxoxa ngazo namhlanje.

Ungakhohlisa kanjani umphathi oshadile, umngane noma osebenza naye?

Amantombazane anesipiliyoni sokudukisa abafana athi indoda yomndeni iyisisulu esilula, ngoba kaningi ayinandaba nokuqokwa komfazi, baphupha ngothando olubi nokubonakala okucacile, kodwa abakwazi ukuwashada. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezindlela ezilula futhi eziphumelelayo zokunyenga umfana oshadile:

  1. Gcizelela ubulili bakho nobulili . Amadoda abona abashade bawo endaweni yabo, lapho kungalungile futhi kungathandeki ukuhamba ngezingubo ezincane noma i-airy negligee, futhi, njengoba kwaziwa, amantombazane abathanda amehlo. Kungenzeka ukuthi inkanuko yesifiso sakho sekuyisikhathi eside ukhathele uhlobo lomfazi esithweni sezemidlalo noma ingubo elula kakhulu, ngakho-ke ukudlala ngokuphambene.
  2. Sebenzisa isikhathi esiningi ndawonye, ​​kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umatasa kangakanani, ukuxoxa ngephrojekthi, noma ingxoxo elula ngesikhathi sakusihlwa, okubaluleke kakhulu, kufanele uthole ithuba lokubonisa lo muntu ukuthi unesithakazelo kuye, umnike umdlandla, ongenakho. Amantombazane amaningi awaqondi ukuthi abafana badinga kanjani ukuthi bazizwe behlakaniphile, benesibindi, benqume futhi befisa, badumisa indoda, uyomvusa ngokuphindaphindiwe ukufakazela ukuthi yilokho oyibonayo. Le ndlela iyasiza, indlela yokukhohlisa osebenza naye oshadile, futhi ube ngunkosikazi womngane osenesikhathi eside, cishe noma yiluphi ilungu lezocansi ezinamandla emva kokuncoma okujwayelekile ngeke kufune ukuyeka ukuzwakalisa kwakho, futhi uzodinga ukuqhubeka nokuxhumana.
  3. Ungazikhipheli, umfana kufanele aqonde ukuthi uyathandeka, futhi awuphikisi ukulala naye, ngaphandle kwalokho uzoqhubeka ekubona ukuthi ungumngane noma osebenza naye. Mane nje ungadluli, khumbula ukuthi ukusikisela nokunikezwa akufani, ngothando , kodwa ungasho ukuthi konke kuqondile.
  4. Menze aqonde indlela ozizwa ngayo mayelana nokukhwabanisa, uthi omama abaningi ngokwabo bayecala ukunyamalala kwesibindi nokuthi abalingani babo balala nabanye, bathi bangafuni neze indoda ukuba ihambe emndenini noma ixoxe konke kumkayo. Iningi labantu alihambisani nezintatheli ohlangothini, kepha ukwesaba ukuthi kuzodingeka bavume lokhu kanye necala labo elibavimbela ekwenzeni isinqumo sokugcina. Ngaphambi kokuba akhohlise indoda ethembekile, umuntu kufanele anqobe ukwesaba kwakhe futhi amqinisekise ukuthi unqume ukushintsha kuphela ngenxa yokuziphatha komkakhe, ongafuni ukumnika lokho akufanelekelayo-ukuzwakalisa, umqondo wokuheha nokuqonda kwakhe.
  5. Utshwala ngumngani wakho, kodwa ngokulinganisa okulinganiselwe, iwayini elincane lizokhulula ukucindezeleka futhi lizonciphisa ukulawula komfana ngokuziphatha kwakhe.